..Mrs. Southern Bride..

Current Blessings

2012-01-24T09:28:00.009-06:00

**Cozy nights in. This last weekend we had very few plans, which allowed us to just relax. Sunday was wonderful...rainy, cold and perfect for watching White Collar & Subway take out. Complete with gooey chocolate chip cookies.

**Finding a Joshua Bell CD at one of my favorite used book stores. I love his music-soothing, elegant and reflective.

**Iced Toffee Nut Coffee, Warm Blueberry Muffins and long talks about our future together.

**Playing words with friends, scrabble and hanging with friends. Word games are my favorite!

**Photography assignments, finishing up editing projects, posting pictures and framing them around our home for enjoyment.

**New recipe ideas, starting the C25k program, Pilates, Old Books, reading through the most recent Victoria magazine and playing with Mr. Darcy (the rotten little four legged that he is! ;-) )

From Lavish Gatherings To Wodehouse

2012-01-13T09:10:00.005-06:00

This month, I've been reading through the story of Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen. I love the Austen period of lavish dances and gatherings, not to mention the factors of what it means to be a lady. My favorite storyline has been Pride and Prejudice for a long time. So, I thought it was high time for me to read along with the other characters, to see their view on the world. After that, I have a heap of classics to dive into...Jeeves by P.G. Wodehouse, The Child From the Sea by Elizabeth Goudge and I would really love to sink my teeth into a Tolkein novel. I've never read the Lord of the Rings! *gasp* Most of my book loving friends find that hard to believe. Then, I'm always up for a good mystery or suspense novel and my favorite Lemony Snicket books (I'm finally nearing the end of the series!).

And since I've been a little under the weather, I'm certain that today will be filled with hot tea, old books and maybe some I Love Lucy Reruns. And Josh even bought me a bag of chocolate covered pretzels...he's so good to me!

My only other "bookish" goal for the year would be to find a quaint little book club that focus on hard back classic novels to delve into together.

What have you been reading? Or better yet, what's on your 'to read' list?

Choosing To Savor

2012-01-06T07:45:00.005-06:00

The past few weeks have been glorious. Amidst the Christmas and New Year's blur, I was able to soak it up and enjoy the moments. My work was cut back during those weeks and since most of my "shopping" was done ahead of time, I was able to focus on other more important aspects of the season. Even this past week has been one of extra sleep, easy schedules and very few items on my to do list. Yet, I know it's time to whip out the planner and get back into the swing of things. Perhaps with a "to do" list for the year or rather, list of goals.

I kept thinking I would write one of those "ode to 2011" posts, but really, there isn't much to say. It was a difficult year. It was an amazing year. In every single situation that Josh and I faced, we found God answering our prayers and providing for us in ways I couldn't have dreamed up if I tried. We grew as a couple-- we've changed, we laughed, we lost, we cried. That's how life works. The best part is knowing that our Father is in control. My word for 2011 was simplify, and boy howdy did I ever learn the art of that. Two yard sales and cleaning freak sessions, left me with a much more simplified life. Yet, I find myself falling back into old habits. But, it's a new year for new things and new changes.

And this year? I think I'll hang on to the word "Savor". I want to savor precious time with my Savior. Soak in his word and savor the truth between each passage. I want to savor precious time with my husband because life is short and I want to make as many memories as possible. I want to savor my life because it's fleeting, here for a moment...

LORD, what is man, that You take knowledge of him?
Or the son of man, that You are mindful of him?
Man is like a breath;
His days are like a passing shadow.
--Psalm 144:3-4

Blue For You...

2012-01-03T11:31:00.007-06:00

He's so good to me. So very, very good to me. He blessed me with a new camera this Christmas season! So I've been clicking away like a mad woman, reacquainting myself with settings. Few things bring me more joy than taking pictures of my handsome love.

Oh, and that gorgeous blue that's he's wearing? Picked out by Moi on a shopping excursion. A man in plaid is a fine thing to behold, in my humble opinion. ;-)

And the long break from blogging was wonderful. Spent 7 days vacationing...three in Missouri and four in Texas! Lots of pictures coming soon!

Book Review: The 60 Minute Money Workout

2012-01-03T08:00:00.002-06:00

When I chose to review The 60-Minute Money Workout by Ellie Kay, I was hoping for an out of the box approach. However, what I found was a fairly typical series of tips for getting your finances in order. One advantage of this book, was the format and layout of the information provides to help you out. If you need simple guidance or a change of heart in the direction of your finances, then this is great option for you. You can read more about the book or even sign up to review similar books by participating in Blogging For Books, from whom I received my copy. Happy reading!

Three More Sleeps 'Till Christmas!

2011-12-22T10:00:00.001-06:00

The child was born, the star shone bright
And love came down at Christmas time
-love came down

If there is one thing I could change about Christmas, it would be that time would slow down. I feel as if I'm ever clinging to last few days, hoping that somehow I can capture it and put it in a bottle fir safe keeping. For when Christmas passes, the coldest days of the year seem to spin me into a cycle of blues. The festive colors, carols and cares a mere memory. But, as we watched yet another version and somewhat overplayed "quote", I am struck by the words of Charles Dickens yet again: "I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all year". May we sew this upon the hearts and minds this year? Truly keep the spirit alive and well within us?

I may be somewhat immersed into the season. My books have been of the Christmas spirit since early November. If I could, I would wonder the streets aimlessly in view of Christmas lights, carols blasting and peppermint mocha's' in my hand...every single night. My heart would always be bursting with the JOY of the season. With peace and happiness over the greatest celebration of all time.

Thankfully, there are cameras, blogs and other outlets to document the memories. So I can save them in the days to come. And there is always Twelfth Night to celebrate, candle light and all.

Merry Christmas from our home to yours!

Our Christmas Home 2011 {twinkling lights and all!}

2011-12-19T16:35:00.014-06:00

This Christmas has been a beautiful season. It just seems to be more relaxed. I'm learning to savor the moments a little more. To count my blessings. And to thank my Father for the greatest gift of all... His son. Plus, I am thankful for another year with my love.

I decided to go with most of the decor we purchased last year. Most of our ornaments and tree decor was decked out with traditional Christmas colors: Green, Red, and Gold. For the mantel we added lights, stockings and a "Peace On Earth" sign.

We decorated while watching Holiday Inn with a roaring fire and yummy egg nog. I love little things that make "traditions" a little sweeter. Quite literally! ;-)

My Christmas Candy of choice this year was Ghiradelli Peppermint bark with DARK CHOCOLATE. It should have been named " Amazing Christmas Holiday Crack" because it is quite addictive and the perfect after dinner treat. I think one bag will be enough for this year, otherwise my jeans may not fit for New Year's.

My favorite gift wrap is the Snoopy & Gang. Just a little whimsy touch to the traditional look of our tree. And of course it matches my Peanuts collection of decor. :)

For the dining room table, I was able to pick out a few new pieces this year. I loved the old world gold items. I try to keep the sleigh filled with the Christmas Reece's Peanut Butter cups.

Our "Ornament" of the year was a four leaf clover. Since our big trip of the year was Ireland, it only seemed fitting to get one that reflected that. I love it!

For the traditional ornament exchange we host between ourselves, I gave Josh Peppy Le Pue ornament. It very much fits our personalities. Especially Josh's. ;-) For those of you that know us in real life, I'm sure you know what I mean by that. He gave me the "I <3 Chocolate" ornament. Can't imagine why he would have chose that. HA!

These little Christmas carolers were adorable. I found them at a Christmas "garage" sale. Two elderly ladies were hosting it and I had to stop to check it out. Ended up getting them for mere quarters, and I love them! Very "Dicken-ish" if I say so myself.

I've been reading through the Christmas Blessing for my 6th time. Since I was a teenager, this has been my book of choice for the Christmas season. The story never gets old. The tears and laughter never subside when reading. It touches my heart every. single. time. I wish everyone I knew would read this.

And center stage in our little home, is the little clear Nativity set. A simple remembrance for the season. I hope our hearts are filled with more love and thanksgiving than ever before.

Linking up with Christmas Home tours with Kelly's Korner, Keeping The Christmas Spirit Alive, Shabby Creek Cottage, Michaela Noelle, Ten June, Inspired Room, and The Nester!

marry, merry, memories {a celebration!}

2011-12-13T10:18:00.008-06:00

last night, we celebrated our annual ornament exchange.
because, three years ago i unwrapped a jewelry box.
it held a gorgeous charm bracelet.
but, no ring.
then, i opened an adorable set of Charlie Brown Christmas ornaments.
And dangling from the Peanuts Gang was the most gorgeous ring ever.
{sneaky, man, he is!}

this year, i chose mexican food for the celebration. Cantina Laredo! hello amazing salsa.
hello, fun, sweet memories with my favorite person.
and we exchanged ornaments to remember.

i love you babe. thank you for all the memories.

always,
--wifey

10 Things About Christmas {And the winner!}

2011-12-07T07:59:00.008-06:00

I love that we set aside a day out of the year to celebrate Jesus birth. Was it the actual day of his birth? Who knows. But, celebrating the most incredible miracle that took place many years ago...speaks so much to my heart. He will always be the reason for this season.
Celebrating not only my favorite time of year, but our Engagement Anniversary!! Getting engaged in December was such an incredible dream come true! And to think I 'thought' our engagement would have been many more months out. Tee hee.
There seems to be an intense understanding that it is more blessed to "give" than to receive. Sure, there's a scrooge or two here and there. But the kindness and community efforts that often bond together amazes me. If only Christmas would last the entire year.
Wearing red or green. Just because. ;-)
I love the festive decorations, cheesy Christmas songs and the smell of Christmas that seems to be everywhere. Cinnamon, pumpkin, chocolate, baking, evergreen, cider...all wrapped into one amazing smell. There's nothing quite like it.
Thinking up and planning special gifts for my husband. He loves surprises and LOVES to open gifts. When his eyes light up and he loves what I picked out? Priceless.
Spending time with friends and family. Making time to visit at Christmas parties and special events.
Picking out "our ornament" that sums up the year. Which, we will be doing this coming weekend. I can't wait!
Our annual White Elephant Party! We hosted it last night and it was a big success. Lots of laughter, food and fighting over gifts. It's the best!
For the hope that seems to twinkle from every tree...that is ever pointing upward. For the joy between others. For the love that was sent to us in a manger many years ago.

I just love Christmas!! What would your list look like?

And now, for the winner of the Shabby Apple Giveaway!!!! Rebekah! I will be in touch soon.

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Happy December!! {And Favorite Christmas Movies}

2011-12-01T08:31:00.015-06:00

Oh, December, how I love thee. Although my decorations have been up since November 22nd, I'm ready for the real Christmas festivities to begin. My fridge is already stocked with Christmas cookies (butter shortbread and cinnamon shortbread to be exact), my pantry is filled with fun treats to make and I'm ready to gear up for some amazing Christmas movie marathons...I love, love, love Christmas movies. Be it cheeseball or serious, romantic or comedy, I'm all for it! I wanted to list a few of my favorite movies and see what some of yours were. Perhaps you can introduce me to a new titles to check out!

When it comes to Charlie Brown Christmas, I'm all about it. Half my ornaments are from the Peanuts gang, my side table is decked out in the Charlie Brown Christmas Tree, Nativity Set and books. I usually watch it at least twice a year. This year, I'm set to show it to a friend of mine...she's never seen it! The best part of the entire movie, is when Linus shares the true meaning of Christmas. The fact that it still gets airtime and reminds me of what Christmas is all about still makes me teary eyed every time.

We both love Elf. And quote it all the time. And watch it all throughout the year. You either love it or hate it. ;-) Plus, I love Zooey in this movie. Her voice is just gorgeous when she sings and she's adorable.
We watched this while decorating the Christmas Tree this year. I hadn't seen it since I was a kid. Bing Crosby is always a hit in our house: he's charming, witty and such an amazing singer. This was a sweet movie with romance and a little comedy wrapped all in one.

Okay, Confession time: I think Tim Allen is hilarious. And Jamie Lee Curtis is funny in her own way. They make a perfect comedy duo in my humble opinion. I watch this movie at least two or three times a year. Oh, and last year I finally made the white chocolate pistachio candy. 10 points to whoever knows what part I'm referencing in the movie!

Classic, right? I love Jimmy Stewart. I love Bedford Falls. I love the angel with wings. I love everything about the movie. Sweet, romantic, funny and beautiful all rolled into one!

I watched this for the first time when we were married. I love the first one, but I have to admit, the second one was even better in my opinion. The scenes in New York City and Central park are just breathtaking! And I love the whole hotel episodes where he scares the hotel staff out of there wits. :D

I also have a special place in my heart for the cheesy, sentimental movies. The Christmas Shoes, Mrs. Miracle and pretty much any "made for tv" or "Hallmark" movie is fun in my book. I'm ready to hunt down some non traditional movies too!

Okay, I could go on and on for another hour about my favorite Christmas movies. But, I want to hear your favorite Christmas movies traditional or not so traditional. Share away! :)

PS. If you want to learn about producing great movies like these, this site is a helpful resource.

SHABBY APPLE GIVEAWAY!!

2011-11-28T09:10:00.007-06:00

I trust you all had a wonderful thanksgiving! I know I did. Actually, I have a fun giveaway for you that I'm very thankful for. I was contacted a couple of days ago about hosting a giveaway from Shabby Apple for my readers. Their dresses are adorable! Here's the dress that will be given away...

"Spanish Steps"

When I saw this Audrey Hepburn inspired dress, I had to pick it. Roman Holiday is one of my favorite classic films. Want to enter? Just read the entry rules below:

The mandatory entry? Is to like "Shabby Apple" on Facebook!

Please make sure you are a follower of this blog!

Also, here are additional entry options, leave a comment for each one you do!

Follow Shabby Apple on Twitter!

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Additional details: Open to U.S. readers only. Giveaway will end on December 5th at! Okay ladies!! Get to posting.

The Real Deal

2011-11-21T11:31:00.009-06:00

In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
- 1 Thessalonians 5:18

This morning, I had a happy post lined up. But, I decided to scratch that. A happier than thou post would be fake, because today...I'm feeling a little rough around the edges. I wish I could say that everything went as planned this weekend. I wanted to clean the house, decorate and spend time relaxing. Instead, my dishes are piling up because I forgot to turn on the dishwasher. I left my phone on silent, so I overslept by two hours. My house is not organized and clean--it spells disaster from one end to another. Thanksgiving is mere days away, and I still haven't made my shopping list. And more than likely, if you rang my door bell, I wouldn't answer because my hair looks akin to a porcupine.

But, that's life. I don't always have it together. Sometimes I lose perspective, lose my temper, and lose my focus. Today, I'm counting my blessings in a different way.

I am thankful for dirty dishes. Because in some homes, there are no dishes to put away.

I am thankful for my messy home. Because for some, there is no place to go home to.

I am thankful for hair that needs to be washed. For some, they have lost their hair to illness.

I am thankful for tears. For some, they can shed no more.

I am thankful for the good, the bad, the ugly. It's the life lessons in each moment that makes me stronger, more grateful and certainly more humbled than ever before.

PS. Online universities have religion classes if you would like to delve deeper into your faith! So check it out. :)

What about you? What are you thankful for today?

10 Things I Love About You

2011-11-16T14:37:00.008-06:00

The way you work so hard to provide for our little family, to make me happy and surprise me with things that I love. Your passion for our marriage is what keeps us together through the tough times.

The way you love the Lord and seek to serve those around you. "Be kind to one another" is something that comes so naturally to you, it humbles me. You've taught me more about forgiveness and true love than you will ever know.

The way you laugh. You can hear it for miles around and it's so hearty. I can't help but to smile and laugh right along with you, even through my tears at times.

The way you encourage me when I have a bad day, let me vent on the phone or in the car. Having that kind of patience and bearing amazes with every day.

The way you love your job and work so hard to get things done. When you bring home your work or stay late and take time to tell me about it...I love that.

The way you smile.

The way you aren't afraid to let people know we are a couple, but more importantly best friends.

The way you pursue your passions in guitar, cello, pasta, travel, movies, and architecture. I love your enthusiasm for every little thing that you love. The way you wrinkle your nose at mushrooms, ice cream and pork chops.

The way you share special moments with me, carve out time during lunch to talk on the phone and send me silly notes on e-mail. Those are the little things that make up the most special memories!

The way you live your life. You are the Psalms 1:3 man that I need.

Thanks for being you. I love you...

Peanut Butter, Pizza, and My Warped Humor

2011-11-14T09:20:00.000-06:00

I had peanut butter M&M's for first time three weeks ago. I could have jumped in and gone SWIMMING in those happy little bags of heaven. DOES ANYONE ELSE UNDERSTAND THIS ADDICTION? Please tell me I'm not the only one.

In other news, I took Josh out for a dinner date. Awwww...so sweet, huh? I thought so. *wink* I took him to a favorite Bistro or ours and dined on wood fire pizza. Then we tried to take a picture of ourselves, but I kept busting out laughing. I mean, here we are grown adults at a nice restaurant, and we are taking cheese-ball pictures! I like to think that people like us make the world go around. We finally got a picture with normal faces, but yellow skin. Oh well. I'm also addicted to Instagram. I wanna take a million pictures and print them off in those cute little post cards.I love making memories with that boy of mine. He's the best!

I am DYING to decorate for Christmas already. I'm going to blame Pinterest on my desire to decorate early. And I'm on the lookout for a great Christmas CD with classic artists. I love tunes by Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald and more. Oh, and the picture of the cow at Chick-Fil-A?? Another hilarious moment that captured my attention. I have a warped since of humor. Someone else out there laughed at that, right?

Yes, I used red and green text to satisfy my desire to decorate. Okay, I'm going to clean house and work out so I can pretend like those Peanut Butter M&M's didn't ruin my calorie count. Forgive the randomness of this post. Please?

What are you addicted too or laughing at this week?

Save this Holiday Season!

2011-11-14T06:04:00.001-06:00

I'm a excited to share with you a great website that can help you save money this holiday season: Savings.com coupons Through this web site you can hunt down great deals, coupons and money saving tips for your Thanksgiving Dinner. Whether you are going all out with a turkey, or simply catering a few side dishes, you should be able to find great deals with just the click of your mouse.

Each year, for my own family get together's I usually bring a side dish and a dessert. As much as I love cooking, it can get pretty expensive. By using coupons and watching the sales through money saving websites, I can greatly reduce my out of pocket expenses. My coupon abilities are limited due to time constraints, but with online options, that doesn't worry me anymore.

This season I have a few items on my wish list that I want to purchase: holiday candy to create fun snack foods for Christmas and New Year's, as well as matching party plates, napkins, etc. We host several parties through the holiday season that range from Thanksgiving to New Year's. Being able to find some great money saving deals is the reason we can handle sharing this special time of year with our friends and family. What's on your list to purchase this holiday season?

Blessed To Be His

2011-11-07T08:14:00.007-06:00

Since last week, I've been "tweeting" my 30 days of thanks. It goes hand in hand with my usual posts about blessings...but lately, I've been thinking a lot about our marriage. About why I'm thankful for Josh and for sharing life with him. There are so many things that he does, without complaining just because he knows it makes me happy. And he does so many things without complaining because he knows it is something that will benefit our little family...

He's is faithful to keep me accountable in my work, my dreams and in church. He's always listening to my constant babble of about 500 million projects that I'd like to tackle. And reminds me of when it's time to refocus...

He doesn't mind walks down memory lane or doing special things to keep the sparks flying. I don't think I'll ever be able to put into words how much I love him or how grateful I am that he chose me and keeps choosing me every day to be his wife. Why God gave me such a faithful and selfless man, I'll never know. I am blessed to be his.

Hello, Sweet November!

2011-11-02T11:15:00.006-05:00

Yesterday, I felt like dancing as we welcomed November! One day closer to the holidays...yet at the same time, I feel torn, because the beautiful colors of fall begin to fade. So I'm taking all the pictures that I can. At least we get to welcome the season in with bright and beautiful colors of Christmas, right? We usually start decorating towards the end of November, so I'm eagerly counting the days. In fact, we even watched Elf already! A couple of friends had never seen it...to our dismay...so we had to enlighten them. :)

November also marks the 30 days of thanks challenge, which normally circles the Facebook world, but I'm doing mine on my Twitter. Are you participating? If so, share, because I'd love to follow your 30 days of thanks!!

Today, I'm counting my blessings for the following lovelies...

#133 for "Red Cup Days" and Egg Nog Latte's.
#134 for new recipes to try.
#135 for a fun photo shoot (can't wait to share!)
#136 for sweet Christmas stories to read.
#137 for the tiniest details that He always supplies for us.

What are you thankful for today?

Book Review: The Christmas Singing

2011-11-02T08:12:00.003-05:00

Mattie was left heartbroken after a long courtship to Gideon. To find herself again, she packs her bags and heads off to live with her brother. During her time there, she builds a successful Cake Decorating business. As she finds joy in her work, tragedy strikes. This tale is set in the heart of Amish territory, filled with much mystery and romance. A perfect book to snuggle up with a mug of hot chocolate & roaring fireplace...

If you haven't read Cindy Woodsmall's books before, I'd encourage you to do so! You can read more of my reviews on her works by visiting Blogging For Books! I received this copy in exchange for my review on Mrs. Southern Bride.

Fallish Love! And our favorite recipe.

2011-10-27T10:48:00.010-05:00

Fall is such a perfect time of year. It's cool enough to wear a jacket and sip on warm drinks, while toasting by the fire. I love adding a little fall decor to our home, but not too much. In November, I start bringing out the Christmas decor...yes, I'm one of those people. ;-) But, 'till then, I'm loving our little bits of decor here and there. Here are a few of my favorite things this year:

I made this wreath for about $5. I know it's a little simple, but I liked it, plus it looks great on our black door! ;-)

These monogrammed pumpkins are the "centerpiece" for our dining table!! I'm in love with them!! My mother in law took me shopping one day and talked me into it! When we saw them, they were 50% off!! Happy score! You know she had to twist my arm to get 'em...haha. ;-)

If there is one thing I remember about my mom keeping home, was the way the house always smelled cozy! We use to make a seasonal trek to a candle factory called "Aromatique". These days, we don't get out that way very often, so I have to a dig a little harder to find the perfect scent. This year, I was shopping at target when I saw this candle... it spells like pumpkin pie with an extra dose of cinnamon!!!! Josh is particular about pumpkin scents, but he loved this one. Perfect. :)

Okay, this really doesn't fall into the decorating category...but it might as well be. It's so pretty! Our favorite soup hands down is Sweet Potato Soup!!! It's creamy, seasoned, a little sweet...and probably one our favorite comfort foods ever. We made it last night and served it up in China bowls that we inherited (we rarely use them they are so old!). Have you tried it? If not, the recipe is below!

Sweet Potato Soup
3-4 Sweet Potatoes: peeled, diced & cooked until tender
1 16 ounce can of chicken broth
1/2 cup milk or half & half
2 tablespoons butter
3 tablespoons sugar or honey (brown sugar is best imho!)
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon

In a blender, cream sweet potatoes & milk by rotating them in 1 cup increments. Add the mixture to a large saucepan and add broth. Bring to a simmer. Add butter, sugar and cinnamon. Bring to a light boil. Before you serve, at a teaspoon of cream to the bottom of the bowl and add soup. Serves great alongside finger sandwiches or french bread!

Okay, what are you in love with this fall? Did you decorate? Share your own links if you want...I always love getting decorating and seasonal ideas from other bloggers.

BTW, People who love cooking yummy things sometimes look into online accredited
colleges for culinary arts classes. Check it out!

Splendor

2011-10-25T13:57:00.010-05:00

#128 For sunny days and adventurous dates with the Mr. Pedersen
#129 For long walks, hikes and sunsets at the park.
#130 For pumpkin muffins, iced coffee and quiet times with Jesus.
#131 For hymn sings and fellowship with like minded believers.
#132 For yet another day, another breath of life.

It's all a gift, every single one...

Heaven Is For Real (A Review)

2011-10-25T08:26:00.002-05:00

Heaven is for Real is the story of the Burpo family. It details their journey through heartbreak-- which many jokingly referred to them as, "a modern day story of Job". After a series of serious health problems, financial woes, the family nearly lost four year old Colton. With simple honestly and boldness, Colton shared details of his glimpses of heaven after he make a victorious recovery.

Read the story and have your faith renewed in the beauty and splendor that is the mystery of heaven. It will also be a simple reminder "to have faith as a child". I laughed and cried along with the trials, tribulations and pure moments of joy that this family experienced.

I hope you pick up a copy of “Heaven is For Real” and share in the child like wonder. If you do, be sure to let me know what you think of the story!

I received this book through Book Sneeze, a blogging for books program. You can check it out for yourself by visiting their website! You can check out more of my recent book reads through Good Reads as well!

A Movie Night!

2011-10-21T08:25:00.003-05:00

I'm certain I've seen these movies no less than 50+ times. And I laugh out loud (annoyingly so) every single time. I'm confident that Steve Martin and Martin Short are at there very best in these adorable classics. Plus, Kimberly Paisly-Williams is just too stinking cute!

Last night, my friends Kristina came over and we watched the above films, along with our favorite snack combo: salty popcorn + junior mints. BEST SNACK EVER. I'm already craving them and it's only 8:24am. HA!

So, what's your favorite movie classic to watch over and over? Movie snack combo? I love learning and trying new things. Happy Friday, Ya'll!

BTW, Some people with a passion for movies can find info about film production classes from Guide to Online Schools.

Day At The Fair

2011-10-18T13:04:00.009-05:00

This weekend was very full of outings with friends, family and road trips. We enjoyed visiting the state fair this year. I had not been since my last visit with Rachel, when we were sixteen years old! We managed to enjoy some Nacho's and Josh played a round of "ring toss".

A few blessings from the past of couple of weeks...

#123 Visiting the state fair with my family and taking a few pictures for fun.

#124 Reading books that challenge me out of my "comfort zone".

#125 Quiet times reading God's word and being reminded of His faithfulness.

#126 A wonderful Saturday morning of time spent with just my husband.

#127 Hiking, a picnic and time spent with friends.

Linking up...Communal Global and more:

Art of Homemaking

2011-10-17T13:08:00.000-05:00

A couple of weeks ago, I linked up to join the Homemaker's Challenge at Women Living Well. I took part in the same challenge last year and really loved it!

While I enjoy reading the posts, it's also helped me to refocus on my goals in our home. I was able to write out my mission statements, so that I can focus on creating a more beautiful and peace filled atmosphere. I've also been thinking a lot about the different things that have helped me in better preparing for my life as a homemaker, all of which include:

I am a habitual list maker. Without a list, I get very few, if any things done. So I've been using my work at home binder for almost a year now and I can't imagine life without it! On really busy days I love to use the Google Planner to remind myself of things that need to be done throughout the day.

I am always in need of encouragement and motivation in the area of organization. I love finding new ways to make our home more user friendly and less stressful. Hence the reason I've blog stalked Simple Organized Living for over a year now. I'm always learning neat ways to simplify our lifestyle through this great website! I'll refrain myself from crazy fan mail letters, but seriously cannot talk about this website highly enough!

Menu Planning is a great lifesaver! I love having everything on hand ahead of time. Of course, I shop at whim on occasion when we really have a hankering for something. Otherwise, I like to just stick to the basics of my menu planning list. It's also paid off to have a well stocked pantry in the area of basic supplies.

The most effective way to ensure a more happy home for our little family has been quiet time in the morning. Reading the Bible and enjoying a cup of iced coffee has really "set the mood" much better for me. You'd think I'd have learned this by now, but it's easy to push this need out of the way in place of something else.

Another benefit is reading blogs or books that encourage the art of homemaking. A few of my favorite author's include Emilie Barnes and Elizabeth George. Both have been a great help to me!

I'd love to learn what you ladies do to keep your home in shape! I'm a hound for new simple living tips and ideas. :)

Free $15 Credit

2011-10-17T09:45:00.000-05:00

Okay, this is an amazing deal imho! Right now, you can sign up for
One Kings Lane and get free $15 credit + when you check out. Then, invite your friends! For each person that signs up under you, you can easily earn an additional $15 credit. I've already earned enough to buy items! Their website is so classy, with lots of goregous home items.
Happy shopping!

Free Starbucks, Amazon and Other Gift Cards

2011-10-11T09:38:00.004-05:00

Okay, I said I'd never do this. But recently, while browsing a blog I saw a lot of people hating on Swagbucks. Most claimed they had very little turn out with Swagbucks. So I thought I'd give a review and hopefully shed some light on one of my favorite ways to get free Starbucks gift cards, Amazon gift cards, cash and more!

First, you have to sign up with Swagbucks. Once you have an account, I recommend installing the tool bar. That way, each day when you log into the internet, you highly increase your chances of earning rewards. Think of how often you use google...then replace that with the Swagbucks search engine. This also increase your chances of winning. Then, there is the opportunities to take surveys, play games, buy items and tell other about Swagbucks. All of these outlets will give you Swagbucks that can eventually be turned in for fun prizes!

This past year, I've earned two gift cards to Amazon and 1 gift card to Starbucks. And I have enough to turn them in for something else, but I'm waiting for a rainy day.

Just thought I'd share a little, since I know a lot of you enjoy your Iced Coffee's as much as I do...plus what could be better than a FREE gift card? (unless it's free cash or books I purchase from Amazon....*cheesy smile*

And yes, if you click on any of those links, they are my referral links.

Thunder Dog

2011-10-07T10:39:00.004-05:00

I signed up for BookSneeze a while back, and opted for the title "Thunder Dog". I'd never heard the title and since I love inspirational books, I thought it would be a great read. I feel inadequate to describe this book other than, powerful.

Michael Hingson was born blind and eventually worked at the World Trade Center. While getting ready for a meeting with clients, the first place crashed into the WTC. This story documents his descent with guide dog, Roselle and his co-worker David through 78 flights of stairs. It shares glimpses of his life growing up blind, his marriage to his wife, jobs across the country and more. I've teared up through every chapter and choked on sobs throughout this harrowing story. And yes, that does say a lot. I can count about 3 books in my lifetime that have touched me that deeply, so this books makes 4.

The most inspiring aspect of "Thunder Dog", is the testimony of faith in God and his trust in his guide dog to get him through one of the scariest days of his life.

Not since, "Let's Roll", have I read such a powerful testimony as "Thunder Dog". I'm pretty sure I'll be buying this as Christmas presents for friends and family this year. You can check it out yourself through BookSneeze. And be sure to visit the Facebook Fan Page "Roselle the 9/11 Guide Dog".

I received my copy of "Thunder Dog" for free in exchange for my review and blog post. All opinions are my own.

Intentional

2011-10-04T07:47:00.006-05:00

So last week's post, where I'd shared a discouraging insight I'd read, really sparked interesting conversations! I really loved every single point of view. And I'm just thankful so many of you shared your thoughts. Do you know how discouraging it is to live in a world where a majority of women talk bad about their husbands and complain that they are too needy or just complain about marriage in general? I'd be the first to say that marriage is not always easy. Espeically when it involves two humans who desperately need grace from God and for each other! But, speaking ill about the other or choosing to pursue your children or work or hobbies over their needs, is just going to spin you into a cycle of heartbreak.

But, then again, I am constantly reminded to seek encouragement through God's word. I grew up in a home where most of my early childhood years were being whisked off to bed early--so mom and dad had time to talk together. So it was a foreign concept to me when I hear there are many couples that don't make time for each other. That's just heartbreaking!

Priorities could be anything though (speaking from our place in life). Work, friends, hobbies, family--all could easily take precedence over quality time in the Word and bonding with my husband.

With that, I'm trying to be more intentional with my hours. My goal is spending much less time on projects at night. If we can get to a point where we don't have to even turn on the computer, that would be great! Right now, we both have projects that are taking up time into our evening hours. It's just life and learning to work around it. But, we still find time to put the books down to read together, play scrabble and just do small things around the house that leaves an impact on our hearts and minds.

So looking back on the blog post comments (another website) that seemed to be screaming anti-marriage philosophies...it has challenged me to be more intentional with the time we do have together as a couple. Spending time talking and sharing with my best friend always puts my life back into perspective.

And I have to say, we honestly don't go "out somewhere" every night. We try to do something fun at least once a week around town. Otherwise we try to stay home to save money. Honestly, I think date nights at home are quickly becoming my favorite. We've even been learning recipes to make our favorite coffee drinks at home (don't look so shocked! hahaha) Cooking together, playing games or just talking the night away are some of the best memories I have with my love. <3

"And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken." Ecclesiastes 4:12

Linking up with Communal Global and the blogs below:

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I'm turning my comments off for a while! But, feel free to e-mail me anytime: mrssouthernbride(at)gmail(dot)com

A Life of Blessings

2011-10-03T17:17:00.006-05:00

One thing I have desired of the LORD,
That will I seek:
That I may dwell in the house of the LORD
All the days of my life,
To behold the beauty of the LORD,
And to inquire in His temple.
Psalm 27:4

Blessings...

#118 The continued blessing of working from home and creating a place of rest & beauty for my little family.

#119 For the gentle, yet painful reminder that I should look to the Lord for encouragement. Not the world.

#120 For the beauty of fall....the leaves are changing and "pumpkin" treats are finally on the menu.

#121 For an afternoon outing with my husband, sharing tacos and coffee.

#122 Quiet times.

Courageous

2011-10-01T08:46:00.005-05:00

We saw it yesterday. And I really want to see it again already.

I have to admit the movie took a different twist than what I had been expecting.

Lot's of heartbreak. Lot's of laughter. A perfect combination for a family movie.

Hope yall make time to see this weekend!

7 Random Thoughts

2011-09-28T07:12:00.015-05:00

<3 You know what my favorite cookie is? No bake cookies. The chocolatey peanut butter ones. I love them. I could eat the whole pan. But my body would hate me afterwards, so I don't. I just dream of eating the whole pan...

<3 I've been reading Life Management For Busy Women by Elizabeth George. It's been encouraging so far. I love reading organizational and time management books. I'm a dork.

<3 The weekend could not come fast enough. I think it's the first weekend that we are not booked solid. I've got my fingers crossed for sleeping in, making breakfast together and watching lots of movies. And hiking. I really need to get some hiking in!!

<3 Taco Bell sells their hot sauce in a bottle that you can get at the store. It has changed our life dramatically. I put it in everything: taco, barbeque sauce, beans, soups, dips...everything.

<3 A well known web site recently did a post that "date nights" are not important in a marriage. Apparently, putting your kids first (above marriage) is the way to go these days. I've never disagreed so vehemently or felt so depressed after reading an article before. One point was the Bible never used the term "dating". Well, of course not, it's a modern term. Have they not read the Song of Solomon? I'm pretty confident the kids were NOT around for the steamy romance sessions inside that book. I don't even have kids yet (unless you count the four legged kind) and I don't agree with that. At all. I want God, then my husband to be the top priority in my life. Always. Building intimacy is always important. I don't even see where it's Biblical to put your children above your husband? Am I the only one who sees this as a growing trend?

<3 I promptly asked Josh if we will still have a date nights when we are old and feeble. He said yes. I can see it now....Cane's in hand, making our way for the Starbucks overstuffed chairs...

<3 I'll shut up now. Happy Wednesday!

Morning Sky

2011-09-26T09:00:00.001-05:00

"There is more day to dawn. The sun is but a morning star. " -- Henry David Thoreau

Life has been busier than usual. We see our house in passing most days...on our way to this event or that. Last night, we decided to stay home this week and not make any plans. Which feels amazing. Espeically since every weekend for the next month is going to be hectic! I have buried away a tiny hope that we will sneak away to go camping in this glorious weather.

Fall is here, in all it's ragged, delicious beauty. I finally made homemade Pumpkin Spice Syrup...and it was delicious in our coffee! It will be nice to make our favorite coffee treat at home, instead of going to the coffee shop. Sadly, our local place to visit has drastically changed their atmosphere. Now, it is usually quite noisy, with little to no seating. Not exactly the dating atmosphere that we had grown to love. But, change is good.

The pictures were taken on our way to visit my family. Although on most days I get up before it should be humanly allowed, I rarely take pictures. So I purposed to capture a few shots of the outdoors. I loved the sky, and the breaking of the clouds. Couldn't help but sing the old song "Morning Has Broken" while snapping the pictures. Cliche? Perhaps. ;-)

Linking up with 1000 Gifts today...

#113 Making new recipes, including the said Pumpkin Spice Latte

#114 Quiet times in the morning, reading God's word

#115 A beautiful banquet for a beautiful purpose with friends

#116 Late night reading and watching old Dick Van Dyke shows

#117 Finding beauty in sunrise, sunset and rain...

#118 Sleeping in on Sunday and eating breakfast with Josh

Sometimes

2011-09-20T07:35:00.008-05:00

Sometimes when you come home, I'm wearing sweat pants and trying to finish up the cleaning...you give me a kiss, telling me I'm beautiful. I fall for you all over again. Sometimes I don't always have it together, as much as I wish. But, I keep trying. And you keep cheering me on.

Sometimes when you come home, the house is clean, dinner is ready, and my hair is pulled back in a pony tale like you like it. And you tell me I'm beautiful. I love that you take notice and love me no matter what...it spurs me on to be an even better wife for you.

Thank you for praying with me.
For being patient with me.
And being such an amazing husband. Love you.

#112 For Marriage.

I get a lot of questions why some of my posts, like this one, have numbers. The short answer is that I'm counting blessings, one by one each week. Just to remind myself how good He is and how much He showers us with blessings when we take the time to look around. You can read the detailed review of the blessings challenge by clicking the "One Thousand Gifts" link above. Enjoy. :)

Tiny Fingers...

2011-09-13T09:42:00.009-05:00

A few weeks ago, Karen asked if I would take a few pictures of her newborn baby girl. It had been a while since I've taken pictures of babies, so I was a little excited! We took them in a large window, where lots of natural light was spilling in. This shot was one of my favorites...I couldn't get over how tiny her fingers were!

I'm also linking up with One Thousand Gifts...a day late, but better than never, right? ;-)

#106 For finding creative ways to save even more money around the house.

#107 For my antique end tables that I found at a local antique mall. I love old furniture!

#108 For pumpkin muffins and homemade coffee breakfast creations.

#109 For new freelance opportunities! I enjoy my work.

#110 For encouragement from other women who enjoy being homemakers!

#111 For my husband, who never ceases to make me feel loved and blessed.

Life Lately, In Snapshots

2011-09-09T09:20:00.000-05:00

(1) Josh brought roses home from his sister's bushes. So pretty!
(2) I finally got my copy of the Great Gatsby. I wanted to read it before the movie came out! Which btw, Leonardo DiCaprio will be staring in.
(3) This is my old fashioned milk bottle, that is currently host to my cold press coffee. It's so good! And easy to make, so here's the recipe I use!

Cold Press Coffee
1/2 Cup Coffee Grounds
7-8 quarts of water (depending on how strong you like it)
Cover and refrigerate for 8-10 hours...for REALLY strong, try it for 24 hours!

a few pretty pictures and my thoughts to boot.

2011-09-07T08:10:00.007-05:00

1) Some weeks, I have to give photography a break. Then when I pick up the camera, I remember why I'm a photographer, why I take pictures, why I keep doing what I do. The images are nothing compared to the real thing, but it does freeze the moments in time when He chooses to display His glory. I love that.

2) Last night was fun, impromptu, but fun. We ate cheap Chinese food at a whole in the wall. Actually, we ordered out and ate it in the car with the windows rolled down. Then we drank coffee and shopped at Target for hours with my sweet friend, Kristina.

3) I bought my first "real" RED lipstick. I found a guide on finding shades for pale skinned brunettes...which is def me. I LURVE it. I also bought this crazy bright blue nail polish. I'll have to post pictures...Josh asked me why girls like to where make up. I told him it was due to the fact we like to make things pretty.

4) There was a recipe floating on Pinterest on how to make HOMEMADE PUMPKIN SPICE LATTE's. Could we say EXCIIIIIIIITED! Can't wait to try it.

5) I've been a reading machine lately. Are you on GoodReads? I am. Please add me here, so I can learn about new books to read! I just started "Shiver". Interesting so far...

6) And last, but not least...I'm officially addicted to Tumblr. I got on it one day searching for some inspiration and boy do I love finding beautiful and fun images to stare out. It is def a glimpse into my "quirky, dorky, nerdy, whateveryouwannacallit" side. ;-)

What's going on in your life today??

Three Years of Imperfection

2011-09-02T08:00:00.006-05:00

Last week, we celebrated three years of being together (dating anniversary!)

It's amazing how two people can change. Growing together, learning to be the better half. Last night we took a drive through a small town, windows down, Mr. Darcy between us. Stereo blasting and ice cream sundae's. Just another day in our life. But, we ended the night in a heart to heart discussion about faith. How we chose the paths we've taken and what gets us through the day. He pointed out something that hit home with me...we both have our strengths and weaknesses. It has to be that way. One of us is stronger when the other is weak. It's pretty cool if you think about it. I'm glad that neither of us is "perfect". Instead we learn to love each other through our imperfections. I love how God ironed everything out for marriage to work.

And I'm so glad I get to be Josh's wife.

He's amazing.

Just sayin'.

It Was A Date Night...Recipe Included.

2011-09-01T08:10:00.000-05:00

He's been working late hours, and I have too. We also babysat for several days, which was fun, but then I got sick. So a date night had been put off for a few days. We chose to enjoy a home cooked meal, dessert and a drive around town...

And just in case I haven't mentioned it lately, I really, really, really looooove my Mr. Husband. He's so awesome...<3

The Taco Mountains were really good, and honestly we'd never made them before. Josh finished his in about 2 minutes flat. So in case anyone else out there have never made them here's the recipe! I'm sure you could easily double, triple, quadruple it, etc. ;-)

Taco Mountains!
3 White Corn Tortillas
1 Cup Black Beans (fully cooked)
1 small Tomato, diced
1 teaspoon Sour Cream
1/4 teaspoon Cajun Seasoning
Colby Jack Cheese, grated

Spread ingredients evenly over the flour tortilla's, bake at 350 for 5-8 minutes, or until cheese has melted. Serve immediately. We also topped them with hot sauce!

Books & Lists

2011-08-29T08:48:00.005-05:00

Rating: <3 <3 <3 <3

Books are so much fun. Espeically when they capture my attention from the very beginning. I have to admit though, for a very long time I'd left the whole "Christian" fiction scene. Most of the books I found to be lacking...the same story line over and over. However, since I signed up with Blogging For Books...I've really fallen in love with Cindy Woodsmall. These just aren't your average "run of the mill" romance novels. In fact they seem to capture a little of everything...mystery, romance, suspense and simple message of the gospel. It is also well written, plus you get to keep up with each character as they are woven throughout the series. I received my copy through Blogging For Books. Opinions are my own. But, you should check them out for yourself.

Rating: <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

After reading a review about the Penderwicks from a few friends on GoodReads, I had to get a copy for myself. So I was tickled pink when I found my copy at a local flea market for just $2. I read the book a few hours each day and couldn't wait to finish. It is a sweet story of four siblings and their summer vacation. A funny story? I was reading this during lunch break at Starbucks, when I busted out LAUGHING. I mean LOUD. And if you know me...I'm not overly emotional about anything. To make matters worse, the folks next to me stopped and started at me like a lost my mind. Perhaps I did. Who knows? But, if you love great children's literature, check it!

Okay, as the last days of August are winding down, I'm all ready to gear up for a fall reading "game plan". Sounds crazy, right? But, I am crazy. And I am in love with books. ;-)

I'd like to read a handful of classics this fall. Any recommendations?
Finish the Series of Unfortunate Events by the end of September.
Re-read a few of Lousia May Alcotts Books (Little Men in particular!).
Read a new genre of books...perhaps "sci-fi"?
Start reading my stack of P.G. Wodehouse (he's another "LAUGH OUT LOUD" read).
Find a new series to fall in love with...(still sad Hunger Games ended...it was shocking.)
Finish my latest flea market find, a Grace Livingstone Hill book.

What's on your book list for this fall?

With Her Hands

2011-08-25T14:10:00.010-05:00

Years ago, when I was a teen still living at home, I remember listening to a special radio program on marriage. Couples or spouses would call in sharing their tid bits and advice on marriage. One story in particular has stayed in my mind and serves as a constant reminder...

An older man shared that after 35 years of marriage, he was lonely. The testimony of his marriage was heartbreaking at best.

When he wanted to spend time with his wife after dinner, even for a few minutes, she was too busy cleaning dishes and getting the children off to bed. At night, when he wanted to spend time with her, she was too tired. When he tried to help with the chores around the house, she complained and belittled him. On the weekends, when he wanted to spend time with her, all she could think about was scooting the kids around from one activity to the next. And Sunday was reserved for her church obligations, teaching Sunday school and getting some rest, because she was too tired to be romantic. Too tired to be his wife.

The conclusion to his story, was though he had been faithful to his wife, he often wished they'd never married. She didn't have time for him, for their marriage. Everything from church to her children were much more important than their needs as a couple. He often wondered if they had been better off, not marrying at all. What a sad testimony to marriage...

I couldn't help, but wonder if maybe he'd tried to talk to her? Had he tried for counseling? But, even through the airwaves you could hear his heartbreak. Could feel the loneliness and rejection radiating through his voice.

He ended his share time by encouraging couples to carve out time for each other. Because the end result is a lonely and difficult road to trod.

It served as a powerful reminder of how much we, as wives, can effect our husbands. Even the Bible tells us that " The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands." (Proverbs 14:1) It was sad to see how one woman chose her children, her church, her own pursuits over that of her husband. Perhaps the vows she took many years ago to "love and cherish" had fallen on deaf ears?

And what a poignant and painful reminder to me, that I too easily fall prey to the things around me. It's easy to brush off my husband to focus on work assignments or laundry. It's easy to get caught up in other friendships and church functions. While these are all good things, important things, they should never take place, or even come close to my relationship with my husband.

Can this easily go both ways? Yes. But, today I'm just talking to myself. I need that simple reminder from time to time. To check my motives and reasons behind my "busy-ness". To make sure that my marriage always remains first and foremost. He's worth it. Thirty-five years from now, I earnestly hope and pray that my husband can find full confidence in knowing that I will always walk faithfully by his side to love, honor and cherish him the rest of my life. I have a lot to learn...and a long way to go. But, it's a good thing I have him to learn along with.

Cared For

2011-08-23T09:38:00.008-05:00

"Life is not a matter of milestones, but of moments." --Unknown

When he listens to me and gives me his attention, letting my share the innermost thoughts of my heart? It makes me fall in love again. His quiet assurance, faith in God and strong beliefs continue to challenge and uphold me. I'm thankful for the love of my life.

When he takes care of the littlest things, from balancing my tires to changing the oil? I know that he is the provider I need. I'm thankful for the kindness of his heart, the work of his hands.

When He blesses our prayers with an answer so quickly? I know that we will always be cared for. There is no need to worry or fret.

#100 I'm thankful for my Heavenly Father.

#101 I'm thankful for a wonderful marriage.

#102 I'm thankful for every answered prayer.

#103 I'm thankful for the beauty in the simplest things around me.

#104 I'm thankful for cool night breezes and chats on the front porch.

#105 I'm thankful for good books, hearty conversations and homemade muffins.

Blessings of Friendship

2011-08-22T13:26:00.003-05:00

We met over 10 years ago at a home school event for teenagers. She wore a long blonde braid and I was sporting the classic brunette "bob". I was a little bit short, she was a little bit tall. I'm first born, opinionated, but quietly reflective. She was a first born, opinionated and bubbly. Our personalities contrasted quite nicely and from that moment on, our friendship grew.

I spent the summer at her house, swimming in the creek, baking in the kitchen and talking about books. She showed me her quilts and I fell in love with her gingerbread cake (it was to DIE for). She spent a week with me, vacationing in Branson, exploring Silver Dollar City and raising eyebrows at my intense love for coffee. She shared a passion for tea, that eventually won me over. We nicknamed each other "Miss Cappi" and "Miss Tea".

The years following the first few months of friendship were followed by weekly e-mails, lengthy handwritten letters and packages "tied up with string". I can still taste the homemade orange cookies that came in the mail, just in time for Christmas.

She headed off to college, studying music. While I stayed home working in the family business and pursuing my personal hobbies. I completed Emergency Medical Technician training and hours of photography school. She graduated with her degree in music.

We talked about boys. Dreamed about our weddings and spent countless hours picking out baby names. All the normal things that girls do. Eventually, our own days would come as we were swept off our feet. She's married to an engineer, Joe. And I married Josh, an architect. We love our husbands and on the rare occasion that we meet up, there is much fun to be had!

If it were not for Rachel, I'd be lost without my "go to" recipe of black bean soup, memories of "ears in my water" and a love for a delicious cup of tea. She'd be the worse for not knowing the beauty of Starbucks drinks or the ridiculous notion to get up at the wee hours of the morning, just to hunt down fun yard sales to find things to fix up.

Funny, how year of friendships can change. Sometimes I forget to just stop and say thanks to the Creator of friendships. He knew just the friends that we needed to share in the glories of life.

Now, we are both wives, living out our dreams. Sharing in our trials and tribulations miles apart. I'm just thankful that throughout the years, we've maintained our friendship. I enjoy telling the stories to Josh and thinking of my "teenage" years.

New

2011-08-19T08:53:00.006-05:00

Words I didn't mean, spoken in haste, meant to hurt. Wounds.

Anger unbridled, for no reason, other than a lost temper.

An uncaring approach to a sensitive situation.

How many times do I mess up? How many times do I ask for forgiveness?

Unyielding, He hears the cry of my heart. He soaks my body in His grace. He points the way to forgiveness, to the wings of His salvation. I'm safe. Every day, He gives me new.

Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
Lamentations 3:22-23

Joining up today with "Five Minute Friday". You can read more about the challenge here.

Hosted by Cecily and Lolli

Dancing in Puddles

2011-08-15T13:27:00.008-05:00

The summer was long. Extremely hot and weary. Bone weary. I couldn't wait for rain. Dancing in puddles, instead of hiding in shade.

It finally came, in torrential downpour of cleansing and cleaning.

Sometimes, my own heart becomes weary and heated, like summer. I am parched to the world around me, only hiding in shadows.

But, like the rain, His grace comes. Renewing my heart and mind. To live fully, simply and for His glory.

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. --Matthew 5:14-16

#89 Thankful for my husband, who reminds me to really live.

#90 For the storms. For the green.

#91 For the whispers of another season coming soon...fall.

#92 Enjoying long conversations and scrabble outdoors at the coffee shop.

#93 Sonic for lunch and a matinee to see "Captain America" with my love.

#94 Making Cold brew coffee at home in my large canning jar.

#95 Finding vintage children books at a Church Yard sale.

#96 Another blessing. Another answered prayer.

#97 Watching a dear friend graduate after years of hard work in school.

#98 Finding "Summer Magic" at the book store.

#99 Naps on Sunday afternoon.

Always

2011-08-10T08:45:00.009-05:00

"Why do you blog?", they ask, as they spout off with quick witted humor and jabs at my writing. I just smile and nod my head. They don't understand. Unless you are a blogger, you really don't "get it". That's okay.

I started blogging as much for myself as I did for friends and family far from my home town. Along the way, I met many other like minded women who loved the art of sharing and storytelling as much as I did. I've made friends along the way...many of you have shared in my engagement, you read through our love story and sent your warm wishes on our wedding day. You've shared your own weakness and let me share mine. It's become a place to find support and kinship.

Documenting life has always been a huge part of who I am. It started years ago when I still lived at home. I documented through Creative Memories when my mom was a consultant. Eventually, I started using blogspot, then Xanga, then MySpace and eventually back to Blogger when Google took it over. The story was always changing with the winds of time. But, I kept plunking away at the keys, sharing and hoping in some way to bring glory to the One that gave me life.

These days, I love sharing about the every day little moments in our married life. I find joy in remembering the little details. The quiet moments. The pictures. The dates. I love the man I married and I hope to keep writing many more stories to share, cherish and ponder.

When the hard times come, I can always look back and remember...He has carried us through every valley, lifted us up when the world threatened to weigh us down.

Because, the one constant thread in the fabric of our story is that He is faithful. Always.

Enthralled

2011-08-09T09:53:00.005-05:00

#81 For the gift or rain. Thunder. Lightening.

#82 For the gift of friendship. Laughter. Memories.

#83 For the gift of travel. Packed Bags. Time away.

#84 For the gift of reading. Great books. Collecting.

#85 For the gift of home. Cleaning. Organizing.

#86 For the gift of life. Hope. Joy. Blessings.

#87 For the gift of music. Hymns. Worship. Love songs.

#88 For the git of homemaking. Giving. Sharing. Serving.

Blogging For Books: Review of Breath of An Angel

2011-08-09T08:11:00.004-05:00

I recently received a copy of "Breath of Angel" through Blogging For Books. I've really enjoyed being involved with this program so far. Basically, you get to choose a book to review in exchange for sharing about it on your blog. So, if you are interested check them out. And while you are at it, find my name and read my current reviews!

The book "Breath of An Angel" was nothing like I'd imagined. I thought I signed up for an average mystery novel. However, it tends to be mystery/myths/storytelling all wrapped into one. The main character Melaia witnesses a gruesome murder. She is then confronted by man beast and quickly realizes she is in danger. Personally, I'm not a fan for mythical type story lines, so I was a bit disappointed. On the other hand if you enjoy them, you'll probably soak up this book!

He makes me whole...

2011-08-05T07:20:00.006-05:00

For the past few weeks, I've been linking up with Five Minute Friday. She gives a prompt and encourages you to write for 5 minutes, no editing. I love writing and pursuing challenges. Hope you consider joining up too!

He makes me whole. Complete. The missing piece to my puzzle in life. It is a mystery, filled with both beauty and wonderment. How and why God chose to give us the gift of marriage is beautiful. I sometimes wonder what it was like for Adam and Eve. Did they know and understand the beauty of their relationship?

He makes me whole. Confident. With him I know I am a better person. He pushes me and challenges me to look beyond the norm. Not settle. To work for my heart's desire. He is my calm in the storm, the steadying voice when I start to dream in a million different directions.

He makes me whole. Beautiful. When I shop for clothes or pick out makeup, it's for him. It tells me I'm beautiful. Tells me I'm his. I feel it in the way he gazes, in the softness of his hand.

He makes me whole. Constant. Everyday through His word. He the master of my life, the creator of my body, the Father of my soul.

Hosted by Cecily and Lolli

Today...

2011-08-03T09:26:00.008-05:00

Today, I'm loving my role as a homemaker. I love keeping home, spoiling my husband and creating a warm environment for our little family to enjoy. Decorating, cooking, organizing and cleaning are seriously a passion.

Today, I'm loving my role as a wife. I adore my husband, having his constant support and sharing the everyday things of life together.

Today, I'm loving my life. I've been blessed in more ways than I could ever recount.

Today, I'm loving the art of photography. I enjoy capturing beauty everywhere that He has created.

Linking up at This Kind of Love!

Rich Blessings

2011-08-01T08:25:00.004-05:00

#68 Knowing that my only Hope is in His care.

#69 For Josh...who painted our front door and window shutters this weekend!

#70 A night of fellowship with friends.

#71 Our Sunday school class discussions.

#72 Lazy Saturday afternoon naps.

#73 Visiting the Farmer's Market for more fresh vegetables & fresh basil plant.

#74 Another book sale, and many fun treasures brought home.

#75 Reading a book together as our "date night".

#76 Double Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Blizzards after church.

#77 Unexpected Blessings.

#78 Movie nights with Kristina, and pouring Junior Mints over our popcorn! DELICIOUS.

#79 Watching Mulan, How To Train A Dragon and other fun movies. :)

#80 Earning a ton of credit at Hastings in order to get Dave Barnes latest album.

Stillness, Quiet

2011-07-29T06:40:00.005-05:00

"When I am alone,
Give me Jesus."

Another long week comes to close. A week of uncertainly. Of brokenness. Just another reminder that I am nothing without Christ in my day to day life. I'm learning to be quiet some days, to just listen. To be still and bask in the warmth of His love. I'm learning to love just being with my husband, not necessarily having to do anything. Stillness, quiet. In those moments, I'm learning to listen to His gentle reminder that He has carried us through the storms of life, and He will continue to do so...even when it may seem impossible to me.

Hosted by Cecily and Lolli

They Got It Wrong On Love

2011-07-27T08:08:00.006-05:00

We watched a movie a while back, when I was bothered by a scene. Two married women were talking about marriage, when one shared that she wanted out. She was convinced that her marriage was loveless and boring, because her days consisted of errands and taking care of children.

I couldn't help, but think how wrong she was. Because, those daily routines are what matter the most.

We've been taught our whole lives through movies, books, cards and even the radio that love is this giant fluffy feeling.

We are taught that love is always a bouquet of flowers, dark chocolate and gifts.

But, sometimes love is having dinner on time.

Sometimes love is changing the oil in the car.

Coming home to the same person every night.

Falling asleep before the movie even ends. And understanding.

Sharing quiet moments together.

And yes, there are those special moments when he brings you flowers or you prepare a candle lit dinner. But, this in and of itself is not love.

It's a gift that you give each other in celebration of what you have every single day, together.

Rings of Love

2011-07-26T19:30:00.001-05:00

Our wedding rings are by far the most important jewelry that we own. I feel naked without my ring on. Even to this day, I still like fluttering my hand in the light to see the display of colors that against the wall (please tell me I'm not the only girl!!).

When it came to the wedding band, we went shopping together. We finally decided on simple white gold bands for both of us. He doesn't like any fan fare, so he chose a simple, smooth design. At first, I thought I would want lots of designs in mine, but next to my three stones, a simple design seemed perfect.

If you are about to get married, then finding the right wedding bands for your significant other is so important. You may want to check into My Jewelry Box's wedding band center. That way you can create the ring set that will last for many years to come for the both of you to treasure.

If you happen to shop there, let them know I sent you! And let me see a sneak peek of your dream rings. :)

What about you? How did you choose your rings? Does it have a story?

I received benefits from this post. Read the bottom of my webpage to view my disclaimer. But, all views & thoughts are my own...as always. :)

Confident of this...

2011-07-26T06:45:00.006-05:00

I remain confident of this:
I will see the goodness of the LORD
in the land of the living.

Wait for the LORD;
be strong and take heart
and wait for the LORD.

Psalm 27:13-14

From Above

2011-07-25T09:25:00.001-05:00

#57 Enjoying cooler temperatures and a few rain sprinkles.

#58 Playing Probe with our friends (even if I did lose!)

#59 Watching Numbers and eating Doritos for a late night date.

#60 Enjoying our Sunday School Class and the book that we are studying.

#61 Going to a book sale and bringing home a box of treasures!

#61 Starting number 7 on the Series of Unfortunate Events.

#62 Enjoying the "daily challenge" group on Flickr.

#63 Creating a summer pasta recipe that we both love.

#64 Ice Cream Cones with friends.

#65 Watching Beauty & The Beast.

#66 Listening to some classic Celine Dion while I clean the house.

#67 Another lovely weekend spent with my husband.

Full of....

2011-07-22T07:14:00.007-05:00

Full...of love. From my husband. From Christ.

Full...of peace. Knowing that He has control.

Full...of knowing. That I am forgiven. And I must forgive.

Full...of beauty. Seeing the world through His eyes, gives new perspective.

Full...of hope. Of good things to come for our little family.

Full...of joy. The little things in life bring true joy.

Full...of anticipation. For what this day will bring. Our future.

Full...of creativity. Hoping to make our house into a daily place of refuge and beauty.

What are you filled with this day?

Linking Up:

Hosted by Cecily and Lolli

My Love

2011-07-21T09:00:00.010-05:00

I love being married. Every little thing. Waking up next to the person you love, sharing life together holds more meaning to me than I ever thought possible. Nothing prepares you for that kind of love. And it never ceases to amaze me how much you can learn about a person the more you dig to know them. I suppose we could live to be a 102, and there would still be so much to learn about him.

I love learning about the things that make him happy. That make him laugh. I love looking through old photos when he was a kid, and finding that connection through the way we were raised. So different, yet so much the same.

We have been through a lot in our two years of marriage. Probably more than most. We hear a lot of people who tell us we are lucky. But, I know it's not luck that has brought us together. It is simply blessings from above. The hand of God has always led us. Always will.

The other night, we'd had a particularly rough week. It seemed that everything was going wrong at once. But, even with life on a roller coaster free fall...I was still incredibly happy. My husband was with me. And all troubles seem insignificant in comparison. Nothing really matters as long as he's by my side.

"Above all, love each other deeply, because love
covers over a multitude of sins." 1 Peter 4:8

Chasing Sunsets

2011-07-19T09:40:00.005-05:00

After a summer thunderstorm, Josh took me to the lake. We watched the golden sunset, reflections and even caught a rainbow. I've never been a fan of this lake, but that night it was filled with golden beauty all around.

Linking Up!

Showers & Blessings

2011-07-18T09:30:00.000-05:00

#44 Rain showers, thunder and glimpse of autumn temperatures.

#45 Talking for hours about everything and anything with my husband.

#46 Having a good friend over for "Fitzwilly" movie & Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Ice Cream.

#47 Watching the sunset, complete with a rainbow.

#48 Homemade Taco and Root Beer Nights at our house.

#49 Finally getting my texting fixed!

#50 Walking along the river and finding beautiful flowers to photograph.

#51 Making a new Pasta recipe, and Josh loving it.

#52 Being able to take care of my husband when he doesn't feel well.

#53 Arguing over small things and realizing how silly it is.

#54 Our Farmer's Market date complete with Bubble Tea & Sushi for lunch.

#55 Homemade Hazelnut Iced Coffee, made with French Press Coffee. Sipped & Shared.

#56 Long country drives to capture the sunset and sharing Ice Cream at the Gas Station.

Summer Vacation!

2011-07-15T08:00:00.004-05:00

Last week, we spent five days in Texas with our friends. We had a wonderful time exploring, drinking more coffee than ever and celebrating the 4th of July. We also visited Ikea, the Galleria and the Cheesecake Factory! My favorite highlights in pictures...

We visited the gardens while there. My favorite part was the Japanese Garden. It was beautiful!

As we were leaving, this little squirrel was near the exit. I thought it was too cute.

I got a chance to check out The Pearl Cup. Their latte was voted best in Dallas. It was really good. But, my favorite was my iced Dirty Chai.

Linking up! :) Hope you all have a wonderful Friday!

Hosted by Cecily and Lolli

Finding Beauty...Even in Summer

2011-07-13T09:56:00.011-05:00

My favorite thing about summer is the 4th of July. Anything post 4th...and I start getting cranky. The heat is almost unbearable at times here (our car showed 109 yesterday!). Couple that with heat index, no clouds and I want nothing more than to pack my bags and head to California.

So finding beauty around me during the summer months becomes a challenge. I don't want to get rusty with my camera and I still want to find things to be thankful for. After all, if the weather is the worst thing I have to be complaining about....I shouldn't be complaining.

While visiting my family, I took some pictures of pretty wildflowers!

Linking Up Today!

Media Highlights: Book Review, Television & Blessings

2011-07-11T09:20:00.002-05:00

Chantel Hobb's heartwarming story, challenges and inspiration were admirable. I loved reading the testimony of someone who has "been there" with weight and has the story of "loss" to share with others who struggle as well. It is however, very different from most weight loss books. Her focus was on faith and how it relates to our eating habits. I enjoyed reading this book so much that I signed up for her e-mail updates, plus I look forward to reading her other books as well. I received this book for free in exchange for an honest review through Blogging For Books. If you are interested in knowing more about this book, then check it out! Want to receive copies of your own free books? Then visit their website for more details!

Last night, Josh and I started the miniseries, "The Kennedys". I was impressed with the actors and how well they portray the "image" of the Kennedy Family. Also, it took me a few minutes before I realized that one of the actors was Barry Pepper. Anyone remember him from Saving Private Ryan and We Were Soldiers?

Blessings...

<3 Cool temps inside...
<3 Coffee & Shopping dates...
<3 Ice Cream
<3 Shopping at Whole Foods

What have you been reading or watching lately??

Forgiving

2011-07-07T23:19:00.009-05:00

A while back, I'd wrote a post on bitterness. It was something I really struggled with for our first year of marriage. When I realized that holding on to the pain inflicted by those around me, I was doing the very thing that my faith taught me not to do: hosting an unforgiving spirit.

The funny thing about forgiveness is that I think that once I forgive someone, I'll go on my merry little way. When, in truth I will need to forgive that person many, many times. It's easy to think how a person may not "deserve" to be forgiven. Yet, for every finger I point, a hundred point back at me. When I think of my own sin against Christ, I'm only left with a humbling realization. My sin in contrast with anyone else is just the same: blatant sin. I'm no more worthy than the person next to me or the person that really knows how to get my goat.

If I really stop to think about what my flesh has done, each and every day, I wonder how differently I would approach people. Would I see them as Christ sees me? A sinner who desperately needs grace? That is only given the gift of eternal life because of what He chose to do so many years ago? Every single day I break the heart of the father, because I'm human. And every single day I ask for forgiveness.

Truthfully, I'm just like anyone else. I categorize sin, thinking that in doing so, it will make me a better person. If they do that...and I only do this...I'm better. It's a ridiculous conclusion that I come up with. But, I know the truth: "for all have sinned". Not just some. Not just a few. All.

And we wonder why we get labeled hypocrite.

A while back, someone left a comment on my blog that broke my heart. Humbled me to shame. Prompted me to dive into forgiveness, grace and the beauty of the cross. While we may easily recognize and point out sin, perhaps we should deal with our own brutal ugliness. Then ask for grace so that we can extend the same to others. Does it mean I shouldn't call sin what it is? Or speak truth? No.

It just means that I should have the attitude of humility, heart of forgiveness and the actions of love. Without it, I fail.

And now....

2011-07-07T10:30:00.001-05:00

Did you all have a wonderful 4th of July? We went on a road trip to visit our friends in Texas. We'd been planning the visit for a while, so it was fun to finally spend some time away from home. Can't wait to share pictures from our adventures....what did you all do for the weekend?

We also have a new sponsor, Chantel from Life, Laughter and Little Things. You can check our her button on our sidebar. I've enjoyed reading her blog for a while now and getting to "know" her as a bloggy friend. Hope you visit and leave her some comment love! If you are interested in being a sponsor of Mrs. Southern Bride, just drop me a line at mrssouthernbride@gmail.com

Now, as promised, the giveaway winner!!!

The winner is....

Kristina Marie!!!!!!

Congratulations!!

Hi, Monday, Nice To Meet You...

2011-06-27T07:20:00.001-05:00

1) This weekend I had one goal: to find a flat iron. I'd heard that the CHI and FHI flat irons were really great for their money. So I stopped by TJ Maxx and found the David Babaii For Wild Aid Flat Iron (by FHI) fr only $24. I've used it twice now and really love it!

2) Now that we no longer have Bones OR Lie to Me to watch on Netflix...we finally started Psyche. It's pretty funny. On the other hand, I'm about to go crazy with the other two shows as I'm waiting for the seasons to come out. WHY do they have to leave us on such cliff hangers?

3) Yall need to visit my latest sponsor, Daughter of the King. I really love reading what she has to say. Plus, she's always got great suggestions and reviews on music, books, etc. You'll love her pictures, too. So please visit! :)

4) I'm in a reading funk. After reading the Hunger Games, I needed a short break. Now, I'm not sure what to read next. I tried reading a mystery novel and couldn't handle it. It was far too depressing and way to graphic for my humble opinion. Suggestions? Recommendations?

5) We will be going on a road trip to Dallas next month. I'm pretty excited! We'll be staying with some friends and I can't wait for the time away. Sushi and Six Flags are on the menu so far.

6) And since it's Monday, I think I'll plan a "take that Monday". Maybe a movie & pancakes for dinner will make it feel more like the weekend. Reverse psychology. ;-)

7) Have you entered my Giveaway yet?? You should....

How was your weekend?

Currently Loving...

2011-06-22T09:15:00.007-05:00

Iced Coffee, as always. But, even more so during the summer. We've been making them at home instead of going out. My brother and Sis in law gave me this mug for my birthday, and I use it just about every day....even when I'm not drinking coffee. ;-)

Homemade Iced White Chocolate Coffee

1/2 Cup Milk (I use Coconut Milk...less calories and much tastier!)
1 teaspoon white chocolate mocha
1/2 Cup Summer Blend Coffee
Topped w/ Whip & Mint sprinkles

My New Blog Button!

I'm loving my new blog button. Simple, but fun!

Pinterest

I'm also loving Pinterest...I finally caved and signed up.
Are you on there? If so, follow me and I will follow you back. And those shoes?
I need them. Don't you think? ;-) Found them while browsing Pinterest of course.

What are you loving today? Check out the link up at This Kind of Love!

In the Kitchen: Summer Soups

2011-06-17T10:00:00.006-05:00

Whenever we travel, I always fall in love with the art of cooking all over again. It seems that delicious food, fine presentation and a love for culinary art is widespread across the world. Josh and I both enjoy cooking to create meals for each other. Last week, I tried making Asparagus soup for the first time and we both loved it. It's creamy and has a comfort food taste.

So after playing around with the presentation photography for the soup, I thought I'd try my hand at creating a storyboard. Not bad for my first time. ;-)

What are some of your favorite recipes during the summer?

Hosted by Cecily and Lolli

Thankful Thursday & Blessings...

2011-06-16T16:07:00.001-05:00

Last weekend, we took a short road trip to visit my friend Rachel, and her husband Joe. They'd won tickets to see the David Crowder Band in concert. I enjoy his music, but had never seen him live, so we thought it would be fun. Plus, who can beat good times with friends? ;-)

I love being with my husband. And yes, I need a haircut. Please don't judge. ;-)

The concert was really enjoyable, but the highlight of the night was hearing "Oh Happiness" live. LOVE that song. If you ever have a bad day, listen to that song, and you'll be smiling.

After the concert, we headed to Maggie. Moo's. I was sooo excited to try their new flavor "Pretzel" along with Red Velvet Cake Ice Cream. There were Chocolate covered pretzels mixed in. It was pretty much amazing.

Just a few little blessings in my life that's been making me smile.
Hope yall are having a fabulous week!!

Friday Quote

2011-06-10T09:37:00.011-05:00

Happy Friday!

Currently Loving....

2011-06-09T09:00:00.002-05:00

My recent book read from Blogging for Books is another book by Cindy Woodsmall & Miriam Flaud. It's docuement the story and testimony of these two women. Cindy, is a New York Times bestselling author and Miriam is an Old Order Amish Woman. The journey portrays how vastly different their lives are in contrast, yet they are still so much the same. Another benefit of reading this little book, is the recipes filled through out. From buttermilk biscuits to an Amish friendship bread starter and even a recipe for Mom Lee's Shoo Fly Pie (those of you familiar with Amish country will recognize that pie right off the bat!). If you enjoy reading documnetry type books, you'll enjoy reading Plain Wisdom. For more information on books that you can read and review for your own blog, check out Blogging For Books!!!

This week, I was out shopping at Sally's Beauty Supply. A bunch of their nail polish was on sale, so I picked up Orly in Orange Punch. This was my first time using Orly and I liked the way it went on. It's a very solid color. I gave into my girlish whims I bought a few of the nail tattoos...beachy looking flowers. I call this "Aloha Manicure". I can pretend I'm in Hawaii, right?

I've been downloading a ton of free music with Noise Trade. Have you heard the John McLaughlin single? Check it out! I also noticed they offer samples of The Civil Wars!

And don't forget to sign up for the FAVORITE THINGS GIVEAWAY!!!!!

Favorite Things Giveaway & Sponsor News

2011-06-07T08:30:00.003-05:00

I'm pretty excited to share with you two new sponsors on Mrs. Southern Bride. Last week, I decided it was time to make a few minor changes on this blog: featuring sponsors, getting an updated header AND a summer giveaway!

June Sponsors

Our featured sponsor for June is Melanie over at Elegant Custom Blogs. You can visit her website to see a some of her beautiful blog designs! She is also offering an exclusive 30% discount for any blog design order! Just mention that you read this post in your request.

Our second featured sponsor for June is my friend over at Dove of Snow. We've been friends for over 10 years now...and let me just say she is a lovely writer. Be sure to check out her blog and let her know that I sent you!

If you are interested in becoming a sponsor, just e-mail me at: mrssouthernbride@gmail.com

What can you win?

Vera Bradley Coin Purse (it's a small pouch that will look cute with any purse!)
Gummi Bears (perfect summer treat, right?)
Nail Polish (in a fun, summery color!!)

How To Enter:
<3 Leave a comment with a beauty tip and become a follower of this blog (Mandatory entry)

Additional Entries:
<3Leave a second comment with your favorite color
<3 Add me on Twitter, then tweet this giveaway (share the link!)
<3 Post this giveaway on your own blog!

Giveaway ends on July 1st, 2011 at noon. :)

Prayer Request & Tidbits

2011-06-03T09:00:00.002-05:00

Oh. May. It was probably the most crazy, insane, oh-my-goodness-so-glad-you-are-over months.

*Josh has been studying like crazy in preparation for his license tests. Yep, after 7 years of schooling for architecture, and several years of internship, he's beginning the tests that lead up to his licensing. TODAY IS THE FIRST ONE. Please say a prayer for him today!

*The past couple of days, I've been reading him questions from the practice test. How he understands this kind of information and knows it...is beyond me. I'm glad he can be the genius of the family. ;-)

*I've been editing pictures like craaaaazy. So much, that I didn't pick up my camera for three weeks for ANY KIND OF PERSONAL PICTURES. The last post was the first time I let myself enjoy a pic or two. I'm still working on the edits.

*I finally got the next book in the Hunger Game Series, Catching Fire. Again, I am obsessed with this rebellious story against their government. Of course, I can't indulge until I get caught up with work today.

*My house currently needs to be deep cleaned. I have a monster set of articles that are due today. But, when you write every single day, by the time Friday rolls around...brain feels like mashed potatoes.

*Speaking of mashed potatoes, I cooked a new side dish. Honey grilled asparagus! Ummm....it was amazing. Better than french fries. And probably better for my hips. ;-)

*My friend started her own blog. Please visit and tell her I sent you!!!

*We are planning to relax and enjoy a little down time this weekend FINALLY. On the menu? X-MEN!!!

*Now, that I've aired out my feelings, I better get back to work.

Pucker Up To Summer

2011-06-01T14:53:00.007-05:00

This week we hosted a game night with friends. In preparation, I was busy making fresh squeezed lemonade. Which of course led to an impromptu photo session. Makes perfect since, right? But, that got me to thinking about summer, and summer colors. Which to me robins egg blue and lemon yellow make a perfect combo...

For the lemonade I squeeze 4 whole lemons into 6 cups of water. Then boiled one cup of water along with 1/2 a cup of sugar. Once the liquid cooled I poured it into the rest of the drink. Floating lemons adorned the glasses as well. Lemonade is another perfect summer drink, or Iced Cold Lemon Water from Sonic. ;-)

What's your favorite summer drink? How do you make lemonade?

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Lovely Finds: Hunger Games. Glass Jars. Honey Trees.

2011-05-25T10:40:00.004-05:00

Follow my blog with bloglovin << yes, please!

<3 I read The Hunger Games in 2.5 hours. Intense, heartbreaking, tragic. Yet, I love the rebellion against the government as the kids realize they do not have to be pawns in their hands any longer. Reminds me of 1984 in a more juvenile fashion. I'm hoping the movie is amazing, and can't wait to read the rest of the series.

<3 While out flea marketing, I stumbled on a set of jars. 12 in all, 8 large with 4 smaller. For only...3.89. Craaaazy cheap. I love the way they looked paired up with my Fiesta dishes! Here's to a more laid back approach to wining and dining.

<3 For those of you asking about the calorie intake of coffee drinks. Well, being the coffee addict, I've learned simple ways to enjoy my drink without the 5.2 million calories. I love ordering an Iced Coffee with Coconut and just milk. SB offers skim milk if you really want to cut back. When I'm home, I just drink Coconut Milk in my coffee and no sugar. That way I still get to enjoy my caffeine buzz.

<3 Good Food. Oh, the love. I've been eating more and more fresh veggies for my lunches and dinners. This past week, my favorite find? Ezekial bread with sesame seeds, chopped avocado, chopped tomatoes and a sprinkling of sea salt. Beats any greasy cheeseburger. Seriously. Not sure who's blog shared that combo, but you have my heart felt thanks!!

<3 For whatever reason, I was in the mood to listen to Bella's Lullaby last night. So I found the video on YouTube. Played it multiple times while I was busy writing and catching up with work. Speaking of work, I have been on overload. My assignments have been crazy and photography editing is soooo slow right now. I need a break...

<3 A new found music love? The Honey Trees. SERIOUSLY. WHERE HAVE THEY BEEN ALL MY LIFE? Love her voice. So soothing, beautiful and distinct. Watch the video:

^Amazing, no?

Okay, share your own finds this week!! What are you listening too? Got any recommendations? What are you reading? Watching? Love reading yall's reviews and suggestions!!!

Happy Wednesday. :)

Somebody Had A Birthday...

2011-05-19T20:40:00.002-05:00

Even when life gets tough...
Even when we don't agree...
it's always better with you by my side.
Everything is just better with you by my side. ;-)
Glad I got to celebrate 31 years
of your life!! Can't wait to see what the year
has in store for you.
Love you so much, babe!

xoxo,
Wifey

Happy Things

2011-05-17T10:00:00.001-05:00

<3 I want to find an old Polaroid camera that actually works.

<3 Some days I wish I could go to the mall and take photo booth pictures.

<3 I love it when people read aloud, around a fireplace.

<3 There are never enough books in my library.

<3 Certain blogger from Thoughts and Whatnots got me hooked on Iced Coconut Coffee. ;-)

<3 Spending your life in front of the television is an awful waste of time.

<3 I'd rather be reading.

<3 Nutella is my crack. Even better, Nutella with bananas.

<3 Vintage is better, because new is boring.

<3 I'd like to replace all of my clothes with outfits bought from Goodwill or Thrift stores.

<3 No, I'm not normal. That's okay.

<3 My wardrobe and make up bag needs some major revisions. Advice?

<3 Camping in the cold isn't so bad when you get to enjoy a monster bon fire.

Review & Coffee Talk (my favorite subjects).

2011-05-09T08:00:00.002-05:00

After I finished my last book, the next one that came through the mail in only a few short days, was Here Burns My Candle by Lis Curtis Higgs. This was my first ever book to read by Higgs, and I was delightfully surprised. The characters are well fashioned, and woven throughout the story line. The chapters tend to be more intense as the story goes on, and many times I would be sitting their gripping the book, trying not to be angry at some of the plots. Please note, some of the book content would not be suitable for younger readers. However the story weaves through Biblical references, and tough topics. Overall it was a type and shadow of the story of Ruth in the Bible. If you enjoy intense stories, then you would probably enjoy this read. Again I received this copy through the Blogging For Books program that I have mentioned before. If you love reading, and wouldn't mind getting free books...sign up! You'll love it.

In other news, I'm looking forward to trying the new Mocha Coconut Frappaccino from Starbucks. Word has it that they are offering a half price discount on Frapp's...from 3-5pm. If you can't reach me on my cell phone, I'm probably indulging. ;-) For thos of you that have tried it...thoughts?

My Blessings list today...

#38 Thankful for sunny, breezy days.
#39 Thankful for spending time with my Mother In Law while yard selling.
#40 Thankful for seeing cousins that I haven't seen in two years!
#41 Thankful for family dinners, where the conversation never ceases to be intense.
#42 Thankful for lazy days of reading, cleaning, organizing & enjoying my role as housewife.
#43 Thankful for our morning coffee stops, just Josh and me.

Snoopy Dance, With A Side of Thankfulness

2011-05-06T09:15:00.001-05:00

"If I were given the opportunity to present a gift to the next generation, it would be the ability for each individual to learn to laugh at himself." -Charles Schulz

Growing up, my favorite time of the day was watching Charlie Brown & Snoopy. It usually came on late in the afternoon, right before The Waltons. We'd get a good two hours of tv in before we ate dinner. Snoopy has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. So when our youngest brother was born, we wasted no time in introducing him to our favorite cartoon. My brothers always told me I was just like Lucy. I prefer to think of myself as the character "Heather". If any of you are die hard Charlie Brown fans, you'll know who she is. ;-)

So when my youngest brother gets excited about something, he will always yell "Snoopy Dance" while proceeding to move his hands like Snoopy would on the television show. This may or may not have rubbed off on me, even now as an adult.

Oh pooh, who am I kidding. I'm probably a bigger fan that most kids. My office desk has Snoopy figurines, memorabilia, and I still collect the books. In fact, my favorite Christmas gift was my Charlie Brown mug. For some reason, hot chocolate just tastes better in it.

This week has been a bit rough, espeically today. But, while I was sitting here thinking, I still have reasons to yell "Snoopy Dance", and add a side of thankfulness for all the good things in my life. God is still good, even amidst the storms, and confusion in life.

I'm thankful for my husband, and our mid week lunch dates. They are pretty much the highlight of my work day. Plus, we usually sneak in a coffee date or two...he handsome, and I respect him more than anyone else on the planet.

I'm thankful for an afternoon of fun with my dear friend Kristina. I introduced her to White Chocolate Mocha's from Starbucks. Then we proceeded to spend the afternoon flea marketing, all the while buying up TONS of Children Books. Kiddie & Young Adult fiction are some of my favorite reads. Anyone else with me?

I'm thankful for homemade chocolate chip cookies dessert time with my Mom & Dad P. They came over to bring a few items I'd purchased from their friend. Which may or may not have included a stationary bike. Yay!

I'm thankful for the upcoming weekend, and getting spend time with my family. A wedding, and possibly dinner out to celebrate is in the works.

When Friends Aren't Friends At All

2011-05-03T11:10:00.001-05:00

Have you ever been in a friendship with someone, for years...when suddenly, they want nothing to do with you? Or have you watched a church split down the middle, and both sides acting as if the other were shunned? I can only shake my head, and think of how He must feel watching His children act towards each other.

I've seen it so many times, I've lost count. I see it daily-thanks to Twitter & Facebook. The "unliking" friends war that comes when someone stops going to your church. Or leaving comments that are directed to another person on Twitter. I know it happens, I've watched it. I've been a part, too.

Truth is, friends are hard to come by. A true friend, that sticks through the tough times, won't waver. The dynamics of your relationship will change, yes. But, they don't allow the latest gossip, and status updates to dictate whether or not you can still be friends. A true friend doesn't turn your back on you because you read Harry Potter, or because you drink wine. They don't turn your back because you believe differently, or because you wear skirts all the time. They are your friend because God wove your life paths together. Because being a friend means you pray for each other. You aren't afraid to say hi to each other at the store. You learn, and grow. You both may change, you may even choose a completely different direction in life...but you still love each other, as Christ commanded us to, "Love your neighbor as yourself".

If we really loved each other as much as we loved ourself, we'd stop the foolish gossip. The lies, and manipulation would cease. The boundary lines of, "who's side are you one" would be wiped away. The turned backs when you walk in church would cease, and you wouldn't read status updates about the latest incident. Because we don't want to be treated that way.

So today, when someone ignores me, I'm going to challenge myself to pray for them. When the temptation to speak ill of someone whos wronged me, I'm asking for the words to be softened, and changed to an encouragement. When I feel alone in the world, I'm going to bask in the love of my truest friend, Jesus. And when I'm reminded of my own failed friendships, I'm going to rejoice in forgiveness.

By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him? --1 John 3: 16-17

Christ is our true friend. Even in our darkest hour covered by our darkest sin, He loved us. Enough that He gave His life, and promised to never leave or forsake us. Oh to be like Him.

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2011-04-30T14:18:00.005-05:00

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Camping

2011-04-30T00:16:00.007-05:00

When the weekend of our anniversary rolled around, I may or may not have begged to go camping. I really do love it...even more so than Josh I think. When I was a kid, I always thought camping was the best. One of my favorite childhood memories was going with my grandma to the lake for an overnight camping trip. We built campfires, played on the giant rocks, slept in her RV, and ate cereal out of the cardboard boxes. After we were married, I surprised Josh with a camping trip to the Smokey Mountains. It ended up pouring rain...and our tent was SOAKED. I honestly had to wear Josh's clothes on the way home from the trip because mine were so wet. Anyway, we took the tent back, and wanted an exchange. However, we learned that tents, even with a rain guard, still leak. Yeah, it leaked on us during our 2nd anniversary camping trip...but that's okay, all the more memories, right?

I dropped Josh to set up the tent on our second night (we'd camped elsewhere the first night). While he was setting up, I drove back down to pay for our tent site, and sign up. It was located a few miles from our site, so I was gone a few minutes. When I came back, it literally started pouring buckets of rain...and Josh was only half way through setting up the tent. Like a good little wife that I am, I snapped a picture of him setting it up in the rain! Please excuse the picture of us...when we camp...I leave all modern conveniences behind: hair dryer, brushes, and all. So now you know what I look like with two days of wet hair, and no make up!

Finally, we were able to finish setting it up. Then the rain stopped of course. We fell asleep for a few hours, before heading out for a hike! While hiking the trails, we quickly realize the trails had turned into streams. So we hiked in 2-3 inches of water for most of the way. The bonus was that there were so many beautiful waterfalls!!

When we got back to the camp site, we settled down for hot dogs, chips, and S'mores (what's a camping trip without S'mores??). Josh had bought the giant marshmallows, and o
ver sized Hershey bars, which turned out to be perfect for our little adventure!

There are few things better than a burnt marshmallow for a S'more!

Our Second Anniversary

2011-04-25T10:20:00.001-05:00

Today, we celebrate two years of marriage. If someone would teach me how to pause the hand of time, I would certainly try. Sometimes, I think we should still be wondering the streets of Paris, in a honeymoon stupor. We should still be unpacking all the lovely gifts, and making plans for our first year of marriage. But those things have come and gone. With every hour that passes in our daily lives, I realize how much more I love, and respect him. And every day he proves to be my hero. My best friend.

I love him, and I love our life together.

Baby, Thank you for showing me how to love. For showing me what it means to put others before myself. And for being my better half. You are my rock star! I owe you a giant bowl of pasta, and the best chocolate chip cookie this side of the Missippi River....xoxox, love, Wifey.

The One

2011-04-21T09:40:00.001-05:00

"We cannot choose the day or time when we will fully bloom.
It happens in its own time." -Waitley

I read her email not once, not twice...multiple times. How did you know he was the one? The question echos in my mind throughout the day. I hear it when I clasp his hand on the way out the door. I think about it when I'm washing dishes. It's on my mind late at night. The question permeates the air. How did I know?

When I think back to the first day, at the very beginning of our relationship, I'm humbled to tears. Love, in it's first stages, is such a fragile, beautiful thing. It's tender, it's sacred, it's terrifying. It's two hearts being blended together day by day, step by step: sometimes painful, sometimes scary, and sometimes... just down right fun.

There are different moments when you "fall" head over heels for someone. I remember the first time I realized how much I liked him. I remember the first time I realized how cute he was. The first time I realized I would fall apart when our friendship had to die. The first time I realized I trusted him more than anyone else in my life.

But, I also remember the moment I knew. It was through clasped hands, and hearing his gentle prayer. Committing our dating days to God-- that it would bring Him glory and honor. Hearing his words, his tenderness, brought tears and peace to my heart. I had found a man that not only treasured me, and my friendship, but valued the importance of having Christ as the head of our relationship...from the very beginning.

That single moment gave me such an insight, and depth to his heart that I knew he would be the leader I needed. He would be the strong, protecting husband, who wouldn't be daunted by the world. And I knew that I wanted more than anything to marry him, and to be his wife. To respect, and honor him; to share life with him until the day God calls me home.

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Linking the above image, today:

Cherish

2011-04-18T10:40:00.002-05:00

Almost two years have passed since our marriage. In some ways, it feels like yesterday, and in other ways it feels like we've been married for much longer. Marriage has been more than I ever hoped for. I love it... the day by day falling in love deeper than ever before. Always having someone who understands you, who "gets" you, and never leaves your side.

Marriage isn't easy. There are days when you vent frustration, and think there is no way your spouse could ever understand, but then you realize he really is the only one who ever will. It seems that there is always someone, or something that wants to tear you apart, inside out. That wants to destroy your relationship, that special thing that you have. If it weren't for the strength of Christ, as the solid rock of our marriage, it would have been so easy to give up. Thankfully, we are both grounded in Christ, and have asked Him to be the tie that bonds our hearts, forever.

A lady recently told me, to cherish these moments. Cherish our time together, because time is short. That really struck home. The years will go by so fast, and what will I have given towards our marriage? Will I have filled my free time up with social networking, or spending quality time just talking to my husband? Will I have filled my nights up with working until the wee hours of the night, or listening to his heartbeat, eyes closed to the world? Will I cherish every moment with him, or will I waste it on things that will simply burn away with time?

As I lay in bed thinking about all these things, I just saw so many things in my life that are foolish. So much time wasted that could be used for so much good. I'm trying to change, with God's grace. I want to spend more time cultivating more memories to cherish with my husband. I want to spend more time reading God's word, so that I am ready for the battles that come our way. These are the things that should fill up my thoughts, my time, and my life.

Five Things. {{blessings!}}

2011-04-11T07:44:00.001-05:00

Reading...
One Thousand Gift. I am literally on the last five pages this morning. I started it during our trip to Ireland, and I've been asked more questions about this book than any other. It has been a good read, and to me, more of a "devotional". Anyone else read it?

Loving...
This weekend, I spent time weeding our flower beds, planting the last of my strawberries, herbs, and flowers around the house. To date I already have 21 strawberries...this is my first time to plant since we have lived here, and I had so much fun. Plus, it felt good to soak up some sun!

Savoring...
Time with my husband. Seems like we get so busy with life, that we forget to just slow down and breathe...but each day is wonderful. I'm pretty sure that falling in love more everyday is the best feeling in the world. Really. ;-)

Shredding...
Okay, so I've made it through 4 days of the "30 Day Shred". I have a feeling this week will be even more painful. Oi...on top of that, I've been trying to incorporate even more whole foods, and "clean" eating. I feel better when I do, that is for sure!

Questioning...
Have you ever gone through trials with friendships/relationships when someone is grieving or going through a tough time? For the first time, I honestly don't know what to say, or how to be a friend anymore. And sometimes, I feel guilty. Like I'm not a good friend, and I'm not doing what I should do. Trying to find verse to makes since of it all. Ultimately, I feel like I'm not being the Christian "sister" as I should be.

My continued blessings list:

33) Evening walks with my husband!
34) Frozen Yogurt Dates. :)
35) Getting a new book in the mail.
36) Sunshine, and breezy days.
37) Beautiful flowers, and fresh strawberries.

SHOPPING TIME {{and fitness announcement!}}

2011-04-07T09:48:00.000-05:00

In the history of my blogging, it's been pretty rare for me to offer reviews for companies. When I choose to do a review it is for two reasons: a)I love the company -or- b)I think my readers would love the company. Coupon Chief falls under both categories, and I think you'll find some cool deals through their web sites. They are seriously loaded with all kinds of discounts for everything under the sun!

Personally, I love to go shopping when I can find great deals. You know, find a random pair of jeans for less than half the cost at Kohls, or even land a cute pair shoes. Regardless of what I'm shopping for be it clothing, household items, or books, I always keep my eyes out for deals. 75% of the time, I'm on the lookout for a bargain. Just ask my husband! I rarely use coupons for food items, since I choose to eat clean, but these other areas in my life? Oh yes!! You can check the discount codes for yourself!

So, if you are like me, and need to update your spring/summer wardrobe, OR loading up on new workout videos, then be sure to visit their website: http://www.couponchief.com/

In, other news...I'm off to start my first day of the 30 DAY SHRED (haha...thanks to those of you who gave honest reviews on it...I was convinced!). I'm also stepping it up a notch in my "eat clean" challenge. Wanna join me? Maybe you can find a discount code on it... ;-)

Happy Thursday!

I received a small benefit from posting this article, however all views were written by me, and were of an honest opinion. Oh, and I don't get anything for you clicking on those links...I was just being helpful for anyone who may enjoy shopping at the same places as I do!

Random Craziness!! {{and lovely things}}

2011-04-04T12:10:00.001-05:00

Where has the time gone?
Am I the only one who can't believe it is already APRIL? It will be Christmas before we know it. Ha! I really hope we get a longer spring this year...last year we practically jumped from freezing cold, to boiling hot....oh the south. ;-)

Workout suggestions?
Anyone want to recommend a few work out videos to me? I've been usuing a combo of Taebo, Kickboxing, Yoga, Pilates, and Dance Workouts. My body seems to ignore anything that I do on a regular basis, so I need to change it up a bit more. Not sure what to get though...

Hit The Road Jack!
This weekend we took TWO different road trips. The first was a two hour drive to visit our friends up north. We played games, drank White Russians (yummy!), us girls went out for some garage sales. I found some fun looking books, and a few other great items. Then our second trip was a day out to visit a local gardens. We barely made it in time to see all the beautiful tulips..which are my favorite. I'm still behind on photo editing. Which means...I gotta get going!

Finding Joy.
I think I'm learning to just love life, and find joy in everything around me. Last night I was counting up my blessings again: a roof over my head, a wonderful husband that loves me, and the beautiful spring sunshine. Every day He chooses to remind me once again how fragile life is, and how every single day is a gift. It's a reoccurring lesson that I seem to be chew on day in, day out. There is joy all around me. I just have to take the time to find it.

Linking up today:

Making Friends Monday

Fest Your Eyes!! {my favorite images}

2011-03-29T09:23:00.003-05:00

Northern Ireland offered some of the most beautiful landscapes that I've ever seen...these were some of my favorite images from the trip, although they do not do near enough justice...

The World is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page. ~St. Augustine

During our trip to Ireland, my favorite part wasn't the usualy "touristy" areas. I mean they, too were beautiful. But, the breathtaking, I think I'm going to shed a few tears moments, was after the Carrick-a-Rede Swinging Rope Bridge, we headed below to the rocks, cliffs, and views of the small rock islands. The colors of the sea were so many different shades of blue, while bold yellow hues danced atop the rock islands. The clouds were wistful, and the rocks were such a variety of shades, and colors. Probably one of the most beautiful sites I've ever seen...a masterpiece of beauty. His creation is glorious, as I reminded with every adventure outside my doors.

Linking the above image up today!

Book Review & New Starbucks Love

2011-03-28T10:38:00.000-05:00

Almost ALL of my reading lately had been about work, or organization. So this week, I gave myself a break, and devoured The Bridge of Peace by Cindy Woodsmall. I had received the book through the Blogging For Books website that I had read about on Jessica's blog. What a fun way to get free books, and a chance to review them! The book "The Bridge of Peace", was filled with romance, mystery, and suspense all in one. I loved the way the characters were developed throughout the story, as they were intriguing. In the past, I have read fictional accounts of the Amish, and this was hands down one of the best I've read in a long time. I will be checking out more books by Cindy Woodsmall in the future. Hopefully, you will get a chance to read this book as well, so put it on your summer reading list!

I got to head out of town Friday for senior photo session, and I can't wait to share some of the pictures with you all. We had some amazing background, and a fun senior who was willing to go above and beyond or her senior portraits!! So much fun. :D

And last, but not least, I've found a new love at Starbucks: An Iced Dirty Chai Breve. HELLO amazing. SO GOOD. Yum, I can just taste it now...

My Blessings list continued:

Cozy date nights indoors.
Random coffee shop dates.
Receiving a huge blessing!
Fun work projects. :)

How was your lovely weekends?

Linking Up:

Feast Your Eyes {{Spring!}}

2011-03-22T08:23:00.000-05:00

Am I allowed to wax all poetic? You know the routine...the skies are blue, the birds are chirping, and the weather is perfect? Well, it is. I forget how much I love spring, until it finally arrives. Along with it comes birthday parties, picnics, and celebrations of love...

It was one of those March days when the sun shines hot and the wind blows cold: when it is summer in the light, and winter in the shade. ~Charles Dickens

Linking the above image up today!

Over The Pond {everything green...}

2011-03-17T12:48:00.003-05:00

"No one should ever say that it was my ignorance if I did or showed forth anything however small according to God’s good pleasure; but let this be your conclusion and let it so be thought, that – as is the perfect truth – it was the gift of God." -Saint Patrick

I have never been so nervous about traveling before. It wasn't necessarily traveling there, as it was apprehension about where I was going. Have you ever wanted to do something, or see something desperately, and then when the time came your heart raced, palm sweaty? That was me.

Would it really be the green country you hear about so often? Were the people as kind as I'd hoped? Would the scenes be what I'd dreamed of? Would I "fit"? Thankfully, I can say a resounding "Yes, yes, yes, and YES".

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From the Cliffs of Moher, to Limerick City, to Galway Bay, to walking the streets of Dublin...it was a wonderful, breathtaking, and beautiful experience. The people are very much what I expected. I fell in love with every village and town we visited.

So, so blessed. I still can't believe we got to go. Normally, I'm busy scheming up our next stop post travel. Not this time. I just want to relish the memories, enjoy the pictures, and ponder the things I learned. I'm just a little travel-sick (opposite of home-sick), but hopefully I'll be back together, but for the better, and soon.

Happy Saint Patrick's Day!!!
Don't forget to wear green, and read a bit about St. Patrick. :)

A New Day! {hello spring cleaning & Lent}

2011-03-14T08:05:00.000-05:00

While Friday proved to be very heartbreaking with the news of Japan, I remained riveted in my seat, listening and watching as the horrors unfolded. My heart broke with every new wave of information that came in. By Saturday, we were pretty emotionally exhausted, so we opted to spend some time outside, unplugged. A few hours away from the computer was needed. We took a short hike around an outdoor state park, just enjoying the beautiful *almost* spring weather. I didn't realize how much of spring has already made its appearance around here! As we enjoyed the warm temps, and flowers, I couldn't help, but think how fragile life is. It is only spurring my desire to live a more simple, and meaningful life. Tomorrow is never promised.

Last week, I was busy prepping for Spring Cleaning. I tried to take care of most of my day to day projects, so that I wasn't behind. That way, today, I can begin the deep cleaning round of spring cleaning. I am using my home binder to create a day by day plan for the rest of the week focusing on cleaning, dusting, mopping, sweeping, arranging, de-cluttering, and every other cleaning word known to man kind. I'm read for a new day in our home, a new outlook with fresh perspective, and meaning. Here's my breakdown:

Day 1: Clean Baseboards, mirrors, window sills, wash windows and dust all blinds.
Day 2: Dust all furniture, Freshen Curtains, wash all sheets, and towels.
Day 3: Speed Clean Kitchen, Sanitize all counters & appliances
Day 4: Sweep, Swiffer, Mop, Dust furniture, Clean Lighting & Ceiling Fans, and Vacuum.
Day 5: Vacuum Couches & Ceiling, Polish Furniture, Clean Bathrooms & Laundry Room
Day 6: Wash outside doors, clean off patio, weed raised beds, clean our purses & cars.

I wanted to participate in Lent this year as well. My goal is to get rid of one item each day for 40 days, then at the end, donate the items to Charity. If they aren't quite up to par for donations, I'll simply toss it in the trash. Even though I spent weeks, and months downsizing my "stuff", I'm still in "if you haven't used it in a year mode, toss it". Or better yet, I love the quote from William Morris that I posted above, in that light if it's not useful, or beautiful...out it goes!

I found my inspiration from Simple Organized Living, and A Bowl Full of Lemons! You may want to check them out if you are in spring cleaning mode like I am . :D

Have a blessed day, and may we keep Japan close to our hearts & prayers this week.

Blessings List (continued):
26) My husband.
27) Reading the Psalms during difficult times.
28) Spring.

Snoopy Mugs, Granola Bars, and Cuppa Tea

2011-03-08T13:00:00.002-06:00

Random Thoughts
It's pouring rain, as I type. Thunder looms in the distance, while I update blogs, check e-mail, and catch up with life. 6 days away from the normal "techie" life. No e-mail, Facebook, twitter, or search engines. Just time with my husband, far, far away. My mind is racing, my thoughts are scattered all over the planet, and I just want to post pictures...my morning treat consists of tea, and homemade granola bars. Delicious. I'll share the recipe below. Thoughts turn to life, and how amazing it is to get yet another day to live. To live, eat, and breath to the glory of God.

Blessings
Since I wans't home yesterday, or posting, I wanted to continue my "blessings" list today! Also, I wanted to thank each of you for your honesty, and encouragement on my last post. I am so grateful for the opportunity to get to know you all. Maybe someday we'll meet....

11) Making memories with my husband.
12) Having adventures with my husband.
13) Date nights.
14) My Snoopy mugs!
15) Warm cups of tea & coffee.
16) Learning about other cultures.
17) Another day to live.
18) Exercise.
19) Thunderstorms!
20) A good movie, and popcorn.
21) The hum of the dishwasher (reminds me that I'm blessed to even HAVE one!)
22) A Clean, and organized home.
23) Learning new ways to be a better housewife.
24) Writing in journals.
25) Snoopy mugs, homemade granola bars, and tea!

Recipe
So, about the Granola Bar...I'd bee looking for a recipe for a while. I found this, but decided to tweek it using whatever I had in the house, and no sugar. Now, I don't really know what makes a good granola bar, but this was tasty, and hit the spot. I thought it would make a great post-workout snack! SIDE NOTE: It's kinda of a crumbly bar.

Whatever Was In the Cabinet Granola Bars
by me hahahahahaha...like my title?

2 1/2 Cups Rolled Oats
1/2 Cup of White Wheat Berry Flour
1 teaspoon of Baking Powder
2/3 Cups Butter Softened
1 teaspoon of Coconut Oil
1/2 Cup of Honey
1/4 Cup Chopped Walnuts
1/2 Cup Slivered Almonds
3/4 Cup Dark Chocolate Chips

Bake for 15 minutes at 325, cool for 10-15 minutes before serving.

What random thoughts are rolling through your head? Wanna share? Then again, maybe not... ;-)

Unnecessary Pain

2011-03-01T16:46:00.000-06:00

I knew before they left my lips, they were words that could hurt.
Words that were not mine to say. Not my place.

I woke up the next morning, with a sinking feeling in my stomach. Because, I knew the pain. I knew the hurt, the tears...the fear of simply being around people because of words. Unnecessary pain.

Gossip, is the fiercest of all tools used by women. We use it to tear down, humiliate, and manipulate others. It's gross. It's brutal. It's wrong.

It was late at night. I tried to explain my side of view, and thinking to myself surely she would understand. The words that were hurled at me, in her defense stung. They left me weak, sick to my stomach...nauseated. How could she? How could someone who'd I'd spend a better portion of my growing up years resort to such low, uncensored words?

Why?

If we stopped to think what actions our words will cause around us, would we be more mindful? Would I be more mindful?

These thoughts are floating around in my head, because I've been busy thinking. Praying. How often have my words brought unnecessary pain to someone else? How often have allowed the words I say to stab another person, to snuff out a friendship that could have been? It's so easy to point fingers. But, for every finger I point, more are pointing back at me.

It's another challenge. Another day. A new perspective.

May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer --Psalm 19:14

Earthquake!!! And other things. ;-)

2011-02-28T10:11:00.000-06:00

(a peek at my home binder! hehe)

I've been enjoying my participating with a group of ladies through an online Bible Study. One of the ladies sent out a link to this, so I hopped on the band wagon, and created my own Home Organization Binder. It's simple, and has been a great way to keep myself on track, and focused. And I've enjoyed reading A Bowl Full of Lemons Website...tons of inspiration. Hope you check it out! I opted for a simple black binder, then bought pretty page dividers to add some detail. I also pasted a picture of Josh & I on the inside of the binder to make it more personalized. I chose the following categories: Relationship With God (to keep up with Bible studies & prayer request), Our Home (for cleaning & organizing), Our Kitchen (for recipes & dinner party details), Our Business (for deadlines & details, and Information/Miscellaneous (for passwords, web sites, etc.). It has proved to be a wonderful asset for keeping our home running smoothly!

Last night, Josh & headed to bed early. I fell asleep right away, and the next thing I know, I'm awake, and our entire house was moving, doors rattling, and all the dishes were clanking. EARTHQUAKE. Turns out, it was a 4.7 earthquake...although I've felt them before, they were much, much smaller. CREEPY. For those of you in or from California, please don't laugh at me. Hee hee. When you aren't used to them, it's a very unsettling feeling (hahaha, get it? oh me...I need to go find some caffeine).

Remember how I've been cleaning out every room, drawer, and closet? Well, my cleaning frenzy paid off with a successful yard sale. My house feels so much more...PEACEFUL. Now, I'm working on finding a few good deals on containers to even further my organization goals.

Friday, we had a very fun "hot" date together. We decided to go to the gym, where we walked/jogged a mile, then spent over half an hour shooting hoops together. It was fun to sweat & play together, then rewarded ourselves with Ice Cold Lemon Water from Sonic! I told Josh we need to make this a habit. Couples that play together stay together, eh? ;-)

Thinking of many blessings today:

5) Our upcoming trip to IRELAND.
6) No Bake Cookies on the weekend.
7) Listening to the rain.
8) The SMELL of rain...
9) Learning to forgive even when it hurts.
10) A sweet little home to take care of.

How was your weekend?

Love, Marriage, and A Simple Lifestyle

2011-02-21T13:30:00.000-06:00

My thoughts are all over the board today, so I'm linking up with Carissa over at lowercase letters & A Holy Experience...

This weekend, we had the opportunity to attend a Love & Respect Conference at our church. It was a wonderful experience. We kept putting off our registration, and debating whether we should go. But, it was probably the best $40 we've spent in a long, long time. Josh, and I laughed our heads off. No, seriously. Dr. Eggerich & his wife were wonderful speakers, and share some of the most hilarious marriage stories. On a side note, I had found the book a bit difficult to read, however, now that I've attended the conference, I think I'll give it another go around. If they ever host this again, I'd go in a heart beat. Check it out!

I am thankful for a low key Valentines... We opted for Sushi Take Out, and watched Toy Story 3. Aww, that was a really good movie. Kind sad, and so darn cute! I'll take cheap food, and an in home movie with my man any day. So perfect for us! Like our "Mr. & Mrs." Coffee mugs? That was part of our Valentine Gifts. We had homemade hot chocolate during the movie, of course. ;-)

I've been cleaning out every closet, drawer, shelf, and room for three months. No, I'm not kidding. I'm bent on living a more simple lifestyle, and getting rid of clutter. I HATE clutter. So, this has been one of the most motivating things I've done for our house in a long, long time. Any good tips for organization? I'd love to hear more! My goal here is creating a welcoming, and peaceful environment first and foremost for my husband, and secondly for anyone who visits.

I'm excited to take the 1000 Gifts challenge starting today...

God's provision during uncertain times.
The love of a strong, and wonderful husband who gives me so much joy.
A beautiful home that I get to take care of, and share with my husband.
Good food, good friends, and good times during the weekend.

Hope yall have a fabulous Monday!

Birthday Thoughts

2011-02-16T08:16:00.002-06:00

Yesterday, was my 26th birthday. When my dad asked me how it felt, I responded "old". I really do feel a bit older today. I'm not sure why. I think it's the simple fact that I passed that "quarter of a century" mark that people so often teased me about during the past year.

My day started out with quite the...shall we say, list of problems. Long list. Everything from exhaustion, to a broken camera. Oh well. I decided on a little time at the gym, a good car wash, and smoothie for lunch would put things back into perspective. Sometimes just a little cheering up goes a long way, right?

When I got home from running errands, Josh told me to come pick him up at work. He wouldn't say what he was planning. When we met up, he took me to my favorite store, and let me pick out a pretty cocktail dress, and pair of heels. As I was trying on the items, I kept arguing that we shouldn't spend the money, we needed to buy XYZ items, instead. His response was that every girl should get to have a fun night out, and feel beautiful (insert tears!).

After our little shopping excursion, he surprised me with a dinner date at the restaurant where we were engaged two years ago. He's so good to me.

Thus, the reason I've been weepy eyed all morning. I just don't deserve him, I really don't. He is so good to me. I love him. Sometimes I just feel so unworthy of such a love.

Really, though, he is all the birthday present I could ever ask for. I think next year, I'm just going to ask for a one hour staring contest. You know, so I can just look at his cute face without moving. ;-)

I Love Days With You

2011-02-14T09:27:00.001-06:00

I love snow days with you, dear.

Especially the long naps, roaring fire, S'mores, and random foodie choices.
Best of all, though, is just getting a random day off to be with you.

What's your favorite past time when you get snowed in?

A Humble Table

2011-02-10T15:45:00.002-06:00

We sat at their dining table, a dark humble table, filled with years of tears and laughter, I'm sure. They were sharing words of wisdom, counseling us for the coming days of marriage.

Eventually, the men walked out talking about "guy things", and getting guitars out to play. I sat at the table, when she whispered to me..."he just wants to make you happy". That's all a man ever really wants, to make the woman beside him happy, to find things you delight in, to see you smile. He just wants to make you happy.

Then, I didn't know what she had meant. I mean, didn't I want to make him happy too? But, now, well over two years have passed, and I've learned what she was trying to tell me. Those moments when he works hard to surprise me for something I'd mentioned casually, long ago. The way his eyes light up when there's a smile on my face, or excitement in my voice.

Then, when he says those words to me, in the midst of a misunderstanding..."I just want to make you happy". I turn my eyes, to avoid the tears, because even through the rough times, even when I am stressed, I am truly happy. Blissfully happy.

When he stands beside me, letting the world know I'm his.

When we lay down at night, and I fall asleep in strength of his arms, I am happy. Satisfied. Content.

When he says the funny words, and nicknames, that only we know the meaning behind.

When he squeezes my hand during the sermon.

When he meets my gaze from across a crowded room...

Those are the moments, I wish could be frozen in time. Locked up in a bottle, and cherished forever.